- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014
Ive heard of people sending out cards or doing special parties. how did you ask your bridesmaids? Did you get them all together at once? Did you know ahead of time who you wanted to ask?
I asked all mine seperate. First was my sister to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. We knew since we were little we would always be each others MOHs so that was easy. As soon as i told her i was engaged i pretty much just had to look at her and be like ” you good to be MOH?” and she said yep. lol. Second was my friend in Cali. I was in her wedding and we’ve been friends forever so I knew she was in. I texted her i think the next day after it happen and told her and asked if she would do it. she might be out now tho cause she just found out shes pregnant with twins and due right before so she might be a little nuts so im giving her the option to opt out. I was planning on just having those 2 for a long time but then a few months ago we were out to dinner with his cousin and her husband. i always thought of her as a nice friend and I thought it would be sweet to ask her to be one of my girls. she was very surpised but honored. Were planning on asking her husband to be the officant. Last I asked a close friend of mine that i have literally known since birth. We use to be neighbors and after we moved apart for a lot of years we recently found each other again by going to the same church and have become best friends. Shes almost become my second Maid/Matron of Honor. But thats where i asked her and she floored.