(Closed) How did you ask your MOH to be your MOH…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

On Picassa I put together collages of me and the Maid/Matron of Honor.  Then around the pictures I typed in “Will You Be MY Maid of Honor” Just for some of the best moments we’ve had together in the picture and knowing that girl will be there for the most important day of my life. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor. I just brought it up in regular conversation. You don’t need to make fancy cards or other productions.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Do whatever you want. But it doesn’t need to be formal. Use normal conversation to bring up the topic.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I just asked both my Matron (my sis) and my Maid (my friend) on the phone.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

i designed cards for each Bridesmaid or Best Man and the Maid/Matron of Honor asking them. I gave them those at our engagement dinner. I’ll post pics when i get a chance.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I didn’t do anything speical..I just asked her!  She’s my best friend and I am sure she already knew she would be my Maid/Matron of Honor since I have no sisters!  It was perfect for us..we both cried and are very excited!  Sometime the simple ways are the best!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I have 2 (my bff and my sister).  I got engaged a few wks before my bff’s wedding, so I delayed making any sort of announcements of my own wedding so the spotlight was soley on her.  At her rehearsal dinner, the best man asked the bride in front of everyone if she was going to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  My friend said she wasn’t sure since I have a sister, then all eyes were on me.  I was always planning on having them both, but I’m afraid because of the awkward timing it seemed like maybe I only said yes because I was put on the spot.  I made a point of noting that my friend would be a MATRON OH and my little sister would be a MAID OH.

I called my sister (she’s in college in PA, I live in NYC) and asked her.  She was actually surprised and said she assumed I’d have my bff.  I’m thrilled to have them BOTH!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I would take her out to lunch and ask.

Well, mine just assumed she was and started telling everyone so.  Not the best way to do it. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We had always talked about her being my Maid/Matron of Honor and me being heard. When I got engaged, I “offically” asked her but she knew already.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I just asked her in conversation if she wouldn’t mind being the one to hold up my dress while I’m peeing.  😀  My Maid/Matron of Honor and I have a weird sense of humor.

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