- 11 months ago
- Wedding: June 2019
“It just feels like, why mess with a life I already enjoy without kids?”
If you’re happy with your life and don’t see a future with kids then don’t have them! It is entirely your choice whether or not you guys want a family. Don’t allow societal pressure to make such a huge decision for you. I think generally people who choose a lifestyle they want are happy vs people who choose what’s expected of them. I think that carries into the whole to have a child or not to have a child debate. If there were no expectations what would make YOU happy? What can you not life without? Your current lifestyle? Or the idea of having your own family? What about your husband? I think it’s awesome you two feel comfortable talking about the dreams and lifestyle goals you have as a couple and I think it’s important to continue that as you reevaluate your decision over time.