(Closed) How did you feel about your proposal?

posted 9 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: How did you feel about your proposal?

    It was perfect! Everything fell into place!

    It wasn't perfect, but I loved it!

    FI was nervous and just wanted to get it over with

    It was a disappointment

    It was HORRIBLE


  • Post # 3
    235 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I was in my pajamas and almost didn’t pay attention because DWTS was on :/ But it worked for us because we are huge home bodies and I’m pretty much always in sweatpants. We were decorating our Christmas tree and spending time together and it felt very right for us. He definitely wasn’t kneeling on rose petals or serenading me, but it was a great proposal for us.

    Post # 4
    6414 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Well I ruined my proposal. He was planning to propose for Valentines day at the Baltimore Aquarium and a week before that I was in a terrible mood. I wanted my ring lol, see I picked it out with him, went with him to pick it up a few weeks later and watched as he put it in the safety deposit box 2 weeks before he proposed. He even talked to my family about it and was just waiiiiiting. I had enough waiting by that point and I didn’t know he was going to propose on our Valentines trip! We were getting ready to go to a Super Bowl party and I decided at the last minute I was just in too bad of a mood to be able to handle hours of football with my family. He said he knew what would cheer me up and got the ring out and proposed right then. I was laying on the couch being pouty and he got down on one knee beside me all sweet…. I definitely said yes and was super happy and ready to go to the party. I may have messed up the original proposal but the way he did it was all I wanted all along. I hate surprises and I hate public proposals so he ended up getting bonus points for springing it on me the way he did and making it perfect!

    Post # 5
    70 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You need an option for “there was no proposal” but it was still my dream “proposalion”.I wouldn’t have it any other way ^-^

    Post # 6
    1281 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I just copied and pasted this from my bio:

    One day at work i found out from my friends in the jewelery department (i work in Finance) that my boyfriend had come in. Later that night he was teasing me saying he had a surprise for me, I was so excited and definatly got my hopes up that my surprise was a special ring 🙂

    Fast forward to New Years Eve (and no the teasing hadnt stopped) my boyfriend took me to a very nice dinner, got down on one knee and presented me with… a promise ring. -_-  He told me that he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me but as he just graduated and started a new job he wanted to wait a while. Needless to say i was a little disappointed but in love with my ring 🙂

    Several hours later he took me to our old highschools grandstand to watch the fireworks to count down to the year 2012. All snug in our big blanket, he leans over and whispers “I cant wait. Marry me?” And was holding my beautiful engagement ring out to me. I SAID YES. and still wear both rings (promise ring on right hand)


    It wasnt my dream proposal. It was so much better

    Post # 8
    1263 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Like @HappilyEverAfter54, I ruined my proposal. Fiance was proposing to me on Valentine’s day, which also happened to be the day my friend’s foster children were returning to a less-than-ideal parent.

    So there had been a lot of stress and tears leading up to this, and fiance and I were getting ready to go around to their house and say goodbye and fiance was dragging his feet, saying he had to hide my present for tonight. In the end, I just snapped and said “Give me the bloody present and let’s just go!” So poor fiance pulled out the box and said “Here’s your present,” and we both stood there awkwardly for a few minutes until he said “It’s an engagement ring.”

    Having said that though, I still love the proposal – the timing sucked, because I was alternating between miserable and ecstatic for the rest of the day. But the proposal itself was really sweet – I can’t imagine him proposing any other way.

    Post # 9
    20 posts
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I wasn’t very surprised for mine. I knew something was up that day and he told me a few months earlier that it was coming soon. Also, we were at a concert before he did it and I had a headache. lol So I was a little grumpy..

    I do wish there was some element of surprise but it didn’t make it any less special! I will never forget that night.

    Post # 10
    29 posts
    • Wedding: June 2014


    This is how my Fiancee reacted. It wasnt perfect but I think it went well

    Post # 11
    384 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I had a kind of treasure hunt proposal — it wasn’t expected whatsoever, and was so sweet! I loved it, and it was probably the best moment in my life.

    Post # 12
    1101 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

    I was in my laundry day/pajamas/ grocery shopping clothing! Tights and a baggy t-shirt… hahaa! It was perfect, though. He took me to where we first kissed.

    Post # 13
    316 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We had been talking marriage for AGES, I helped pick the ring, I knew when it was in his apartment, and I just HATED waiting.  So one day I was just like “lets get engaged tonight please”…I had said this A LOT lol and on this particular night he said OK!! So when we got home he got down on one knee, said lovely things and I got to be a fiance!! I just wanted to be engaged to him, I didn’t need a big show.  So I think it was pretty perfect.  I do feel awkward telling peoople the story though because most dont get it!

    Post # 14
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @ScottieN:  i loved your video, so precious

    Post # 15
    840 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    My proposal was perfect. I sure didn’t look great; I had on a really shabby old sweatshirt and we were out for a walk. He said the most amazingly sweet speech (that I can’t remember a WORD of because I was so excited and amazed that it was happening), got on one knee, and asked me to marry him under this amazing sunset.

    Our wedding was pretty awesome in its own right, but the proposal was just between us and was so perfect.

    Post # 16
    361 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We had talked about marriage but were waiting a year to get engaged so we could have the wedding we wanted.  He had just purchased his house from his ex, and bought her out, so we were a little tight on money .. or so I thought.  I woke up one morning with a beautiful poem telling me to pack for the next day because we were going to the place where wishes come true.. Disney !!  He had booked a 5 day trip for us !  I thought it was to celebrate having no more ties with his ex etc since we had definitely wanted to wait for the engagement.  On our first night there, during the Wishes fireworks, he was being super romantic (which is nothing abnormal), during the finale, he asked me to make all his wishes come true and since he didn’t want to be my boyfriend anymore, could he become my Fiance ?  It truely was magical.  I had NO IDEA what so ever.  We didn’t even look at rings and he couldn’t have done a better job. 


    He worked mad, crazy hours and picked up extra work whenever he could, and saved enough to pay for the house down payment, my ring and the trip.  So YEAH !!!  to no debt.

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