- 2 weeks ago
My bf and I are reaching a year. Due to bad dating in the past, I tend to nitpick what he does, not everything just certain situations. He is the best guy I’ve been w/, never insults me, calms my anxiety when I’m having issues and has never gotten mad at me, we actually haven’t had any major disagreements. The one thing that concerns me is ending up w/someone who doesn’t mind if I support him. This comes from the last month of our relationship, he was between jobs and for that month, he didnt really do anything he claimed he never had time for. I was extremely worried about what was going on as he started getting up 11-12, picking me up from work and then not really doing anything. I commend he supports himself, but my one worry is still there wondering if he will change once we get married and are sharing the same space. Atm he is working and we both plan on going back to study. How do I know if my doubts are normal or a warning of something not so great in the future? How did you “know”?