(Closed) How did you know your SO was "the one" :)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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1094 posts
Bumble bee

When I realized that I was changing (for the better) because of him. I want to be with someone who will always make me want to be a better person/wife/lover/mother/friend/daughter.

Post # 18
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Bumble bee

Me and my SO have known each other since we were in diapers, and when we were four we were determined to get married, but to get to the serious:

One night when I was at his house, I woke up with terrible cramps at around one a.m. Even though he had to get up at four to go to work, he woke up and sat with me for two hours, rubbing my back and holding my stomach to make me feel better, and he spent the entire time offering to run me a bath or go get me food or whatever would me me feel better, even though I kept telling him to go back to bed. I realized that any other guy would have probably went back to sleep; the fact that he didn’t made me sure he was the one for me. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 19
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

On our second date we stayed up all night talking. Sounds stupid, but I knew I loved him then… and that was the second day I knew him. He told me first that that was when he knew for sure I was “the one”.

Post # 20
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286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I knew after only dating Fiance for a few months. After he graduated college he treated himself to a 2 week trip to Hawaii with his friend and while he was gone I got a very shocking call from my OB saying I needed to come back for more tests because my pap showed something abnormal. I was really concerned and I was really missing Fiance so without asking him to he flew back almost a week early to be with me. It turned out that I had cervical cancer and had to have a LEEP. Even though we had only been dating for a short while he supported me and stayed by my side through a very hard and scary time. It made me think of all of my other relationships and how they would have responded and I knew that he was the best man I had ever dated. That was the moment that I “knew” but it was way too early to tell him. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 21
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I knew he was the “one” because something just felt different about our relationship. It is so easy, smooth, and natural. (we actually just talked about this last night). It just feels right. and even when we fight, we have never once thought about leaving each other, we just pout (in the same room) until someone gives in and cuddles the other. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 22
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604 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Narrawallee reserve/beach & Mollymook golf club

I knew it from the very first moment I found his profile on MySpace LMFAO. I’m really not joking. I had the biggest crush on him when I was 15/16 but let it be because he had a girlfriend. 2 or 3 years later out of the blue I get a text from an unknown number saying his friend had given him my number. Fate!

Post # 23
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@LLRininger:  That’s so crazy – I just wrote something so similar above! I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer about 9 months after we started dating and my Fiance was unbelieveable/I knew he was the guy/this was THE relationship. And our wedding is also June 22, 2013!!! So glad you’re okay now! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@ED13:  Thats crazy that we have the same date too! ๐Ÿ™‚ I hope you are doing well and are healthy now!

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