(Closed) How did you pick your MOH?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
3226 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I’ll be honest and say that I don’t have many close girlfriends.  I’m an only child as well, so that ruled out having a sister as Maid/Matron of Honor. I ended up going with my closest female friend that I hang out with and speak with most often. She also happens to be the wife of my FIs best friend (also in the bridal party though not the bestman). We always hang out with them, so it only seemed natural that I would ask her. She’s been so excited to be chosen and has been a huge help to me already.

Post # 3
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Our Backyard/Steakhouse

Liss13:  Your Maid/Matron of Honor should be the person you would call if you had to hide a dead body and you know she would come without hesitation, no questions asked.

If you don’t have someone you’re super close to it’s okay to not have a MOH!  It’s a very specialy thing to have someone in your life like that and it’s not an honour to be bestowed lightly.

Post # 4
1411 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I didn’t choose lol.

I chose both my (only) sister and my best friend.

ETA: To clarify, these are different people, I had 2 MOHs.

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 2 months ago by  ladyamalthea.
Post # 5
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

My GOH (Gentleman of Honor) is my best friend who I grew up with. Practically Biffles from birth, seeing that our dad’s were friends and our grandfathers were friends as well (goes back many generations). Couldn’t think of anyone else standing besides me on my big day!

Post # 6
2879 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

My sister, no question. We’re super close and she’s pretty type-A awesome 🙂

Post # 7
602 posts
Busy bee

Liss13:  I do have one sister but didn’t choose her for my Maid/Matron of Honor though she is a bridesmaids. I don’t feel anyone should be obligated to choose based on relation to someone. I chose my best female friend. She is the one person I knew would always be honest with me throughout the wedding planning and who I could call at any time for advice or an opinion. 

Post # 8
60 posts
Worker bee

She’s the only gal-pal (honestly, friend in general) that I have left in my life after I cleaned up my act and stopped partying so much. We’ve been friends since high school and despite a couple falling outs that we have had we always end up coming back into each other’s lives.

Post # 9
437 posts
Helper bee

 I’m an only child so I picked my best friend as my Maid/Matron of Honor. My other girls are two other amazing close friends and my awesome FSIL 

Post # 10
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

It was a no-brainer for me. I chose my best friend from childhood. We speak all day every single day. Our parents knew each other before we were born. My sister was just a bridesmaid since we aren’t as close.

Post # 11
2436 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I have a large group of friends from high school and am very close with my college roommates. I’m an only child and I don’t have close family members that I would consider.

I felt like I couldn’t choose between my friend groups so I chose my absolute best friend who is two years younger than me- so she wasn’t really my “go out drinking, have classes together” high school friend, and she has also been my next door neighbor since we were toddlers. She’s one of my first ever friends. She is in a friend group all her own and we are still very close.

I only have her as my Maid/Matron of Honor and my FI’s sister as my bridesmaid, I couldn’t choose between all of my other friends to be in the wedding party so they will all just be regular wedding guests. Makes it easier that way!

Post # 12
3847 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Liss13:  I picked my oldest sister. We are very close and I know she is going to be an amazing and supportive Maid/Matron of Honor, but it was a little hard to make the decision. I wanted to ask my best friend, but did not for a couple of reasons. She lives up north and travels to Boston four days a week for grad school, she rarely has free time to do anything and wasn’t sure when she would be able to get down to see me. Additionally, when talking about her just being a bridesmaid, she admitted she felt a little clueless. She had no idea what was “expected” of her, as she put it or the process of anything, etc. So, before I asked my sister, I discussed with my best friend my intentions to pick her, but she asked if she could be a bridesmaid instead. I debated further and asked my oldest sister. (I didn’t ask her to be Maid of Honor and sister to be Matron of Honor because I have a middle sister who I felt would be way too excluded.)

Post # 13
96 posts
Worker bee

I chose my older sister Matron Of Honor, and  (who would definetly hide the body with me @LiSS13 lol!)

best friend since highschool Maid of honor.

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