(Closed) How did you "propose" to your Bridesmaids?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 31
4242 posts
Honey bee

I asked them over Facebook- we all really live far apart so it might seem casual but thats our primary means of communication.

I made them cards that I’ll send to thank them and let them know how happy I am that they’re standing up with me, mostly because I love making cards and will use any excuse to make one 🙂

Post # 32
2085 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I didn’t.  It seems like a new fad… I’ve never heard of anyone doing this until recently and now it seems all over pinterest.  Honestly, a wedding is expensive enough and the girls who are my BMs are close enough to me to know they’d be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, they don’t need a proposal… One of my girls a huge cynic and I think she would’ve laughed in my face if I tried to do something over the top or ultra girly like that… I just told them “I’m engaged!!!!! You have to be a bridesmaid, ok?” lol. 

If you want to do something special, I think a little mini bottle of champagne and a card with a note written inside would be more than sufficient 🙂

Post # 33
89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

gave them all a card and a keyring with their initial on it. inside the cards I wrote “you are such a key person in my life, I hope you’ll be my bridesmaid!” 

Post # 34
1094 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I got these little scrolls on etsy.


with a skeleton key with my message.

Post # 36
8686 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Texts. I’m not a mushy person nor am I creative. My friends and I communicate 90% of the time via text. I think my best friend/MOH was on the phone. I was asked on the phone when I was a Maid/Matron of Honor for a good friend. 

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