(Closed) How to deal with this situation???

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Well no sense in fussing over it now.  You still have lots more time before the wedding.  Besides, people make stupid comments like that and then the more they think about it they change their minds.  And if you really feel like it needs to be addressed, then your Fiance needs to talk to him not you.

Post # 4
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@SoontobeMsL: I would have your Fiance tell him that he needs to be there for photos. That if his wife really needs help checking into the hotel, she needs to find someone else to help her.

Post # 5
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

When In-laws try to be a pain, I let Fiance handle it since they are his family. His family have actually been great so far but his cousin tried to be a nightmare. we wanted her daughter to be our Flower Girl and she started complaining excessively about the cost of the dress which is $39.00 and $10 sash., She then sent  me a lengthy snarky email saying we were rude for not callin her hubby directly to ask his permission to use his daughter… blab bla bla  i read the email a couple of times and then told Fiance to handle it.

Post # 5
Member
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

When In-laws try to be a pain, I let Fiance handle it since they are his family. His family have actually been great so far but his cousin tried to be a nightmare. we wanted her daughter to be our Flower Girl and she started complaining excessively about the cost of the dress which is $39.00 and $10 sash., She then sent  me a lengthy snarky email saying we were rude for not callin her hubby directly to ask his permission to use his daughter… blab bla bla  i read the email a couple of times and then told Fiance to handle it.

Post # 6
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Sounds like his brother’s wife is a pain in the behind..and his brother must be totally wipped.. for him to think that skipping out on these pictures could possibly be less important that dropping his wife off is insane! Tell your Fiance to talk to him, and make sure he’s in those pictures!!

Post # 8
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2398 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

FWIW, I can understand why, with an infant and a two year old, she might need some help getting things settled at the motel.

Worst case scenario?  Just do the photos with him first and then let him go, or arrange for someone else from the family to go with her to be sure things are taken care of.

 

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