(Closed) edit – how do i NOT send a ranting email to shower host?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1193 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

You say something like:

 

I really appreciate the shower and I think it’s going to be wonderful.  However, it’s a point of etiquette not to invite individuals to the shower who are not going to be invited to the wedding.  Please let me know who you plan on inviting and I can let you know who we are inviting.  We already have our invite list and I really cannot add to it for financial reasons/venue space/because I freaking feel like it/etc.  I just don’t want anyone to feel left out when invitations go out.  

 

 

Post # 5
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1193 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@sofialovesmikey:  Why?  It’s truly rude to invite people to the shower that you aren’t inviting to the wedding.  You’re just asking her to be conscious of peoples’ feelings.  

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