(Closed) How do I ask them to be my Maid/Matron of honor late in the game?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1887 posts
Buzzing bee

I think that’s very sweet, but perhaps a bit confusing, since you aren’t actually having them process or stand up with you. Maybe just pull them aside or write them a letter before the wedding and tell them how much you appreciate everything they’ve done, and that you consider them both your MOH?

Post # 3
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I think you should probarly discuss this with your groom. See if he has an opinion on this which he probarly would.

I dont think you need to ask they probarly dont expect it. 

Post # 4
2413 posts
Buzzing bee

My mom and dad were introduced in August, and were married 6 weeks later, in October.

My mom’s DB and SIL had introduced them, and SIL sad “We’ll stand up for you”.

My mom said “Fine”.

Married 39 years, until he died.


Ask them.


Post # 5
1050 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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jolie2 :  I think as long as your fiance is okay with it, you should just ask them. I think it’s really sweet and even though titles may not matter to them, I think it’s thoughtful and will probably be well received.


Post # 6
1115 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Mississauga Convention Centre

I would just thank them in a speech at the rehearsal dinner, I don’t think they need titles this close to the wedding

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