(Closed) How do I deal with a demanding MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It is unfair to expect it.  I know some people do dress their Maid/Matron of Honor slightly differently as a way to make her stand out, so maybe that is where she is getting this idea?  Just tell her politely but firmly that the expensiveness/fanciness is not how you want to highlight her, rather the fact that she will be standing the closest to you is how and doesn’t that trump the rest?  If she pushes it, tell her she is welcome to help with the cost to upgrade and that should settle it.

Post # 4
46403 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

There is a simple answer “no”. If you are paying for everything you have 100% say in the matter.

Post # 6
107 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That is incredibly rude and shallow of her. “Will it be more expensive?” Seriously? I agree with bearlove – next time it comes up, tell her she is welcome to pay the difference. 

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