(Closed) How do I do this?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
965 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes. You send it anyways. Let her decide that she can’t come.

Congrats on picking a date! Smile

Post # 4
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I would still send her an invite, my childhood bestfriend has 3 little ones and so I figured she wouldn’t be ablel to come but I sent her and her Fiance an invite anyways in the hopes that maybe her FI’s parents could take the kids and maybe give them a night out!

Post # 5
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would send her one anyway, addressed only to her.

Post # 6
468 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Definitely send her an invitaton! You might be surprised… One of my dearest friends lives on the west coast and was unemployed from 12/06 until 03/10 when he got work with the census. His temporary job has ended, BUT he called in some favors and approached friends in the travel business & sent me his itinerary the other day!

Congrats on setting the date and ENJOY your planning and your special day! I hope “D” can make it Smile

Post # 7
1645 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Invite her, but I would specify on the invite that it’s an “adult reception” and make sure the invites are only addressed to the parents.

Post # 8
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would definitely send an invitation. Even if you know she is unable to come. Like the other girls have said, you never know, she may be able to make it. I think adult only receptions are becoming more and more popular, so I am sure that she will understand 🙂 Congrats on setting a date!!

Post # 9
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yup, I’d just send it anyway.  Let her figure out if she can swing it or not. 

Post # 10
2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

And be careful about posting too much info about the wedding on FB – you might get people coming out of the woodwork asking if they’re invited (awkward!)!

Post # 11
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I agree, send her an invite anyway. Just make sure she knows it’s an adult only event

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