(Closed) How do I do this…I get married in 3 wks and my mom passed away a month ago.

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Awww sweetie, *hugs* I’m so sorry to hear about your mom, I can’t even imagine 🙁 

As far as walking down the aisle, I don’t think it’s at all weird to do it alone, but if that makes you uncomfortable, you could have your groom meet you halfway down?  Or you could have your sister walk you down, so it’s still your family ‘giving you away’?

Post # 4
255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’m so sorry, I can’t begin to imagine what you must be going through. I hope everything works out in the end for you.

I know it’s not nearly the same, but could you maybe wrap a favorite necklace of your mother’s around your bouquet or use a similar item of your father’s (tie)? That way a little peice of them will be going down the aisle with you. 

Post # 5
1078 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@dptobe:  My heart goes out to you, I am so so sorry for your loss


It’s got to be very hard and just so many emotions, my best suggestion is being a girl who father wont be there either, walk your self. Just remember you are walking to the man who makes you whole 


You might be nervous but he will greet you with the most amazing smile, and all the nerves will melt away. 


I do think the fact his father wants to walk with you is really showing how they are welcoming you to their family its beautiful in some ways. 

also maybe put up a sign like one of those so you don’t feel like your side is to small it might make you feel less nervous knowing you have set the tone that way


another idea is if you have a deer friend who can walk you … I will likely be walking alone my self… i thought about walking with my uncle but I think my cousin his only daughter should get that honror 1st then i thought of my moms best friends husband he is like a father, but i dont want to offened my uncle so i think i will walk alone… we can do it totally we can 😀 just remember your walking to a bright future with the man you love no need to be nervous 

Post # 6
2449 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I hope that your wedding went well!  I wanted to say thank you for your kind words on my post about my mom….and to let you know I was thinking about you. Just now getting back on weddingbee for the first time since. 

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