(Closed) How do I keep my big mouth shut?!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I would just have faith that he will do what he says.  Try as hard as you can not to say anything and just let him surprise you!  It will be better that way…as of how to do it…i’m not really sure.  I would just keep busy or find something else to focus on.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Keep busy! Facial and massage- gfreat idea. Do yo have hobbies? Maybe get one, if not. Volunteer?

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I just had a massage, it was amazing. Makes life a lot less stressful when you don’t have knots in your shoulders. 🙂

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

yes, keep the faith! and do anything and eerything to distract yourself! books, start following a new TV series, go to the gym….. vent on Weddingbee…. you’ll get through it!!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I really don’t know. It’s so hard! But, I can tell you that I was a total nagger and I regret it now. I wish I would have just let it happen. Don’t do what I did! Keep busy and do anything to keep your mind off of it.

Post # 9
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Helper bee

That’s great, six months will go by quickly and you’ll be engaged before you know it 🙂 My Boyfriend or Best Friend refuses to give me a timeline at all as he says he wants it to be a complete surprise….

Just do stuff you enjoy doing, for instance if you like reading, pick up a some books you’ve always wanted to read, go to the gym, get a massage… just do stuff that makes you feel good.

I have started reading more now and it is a welcome distraction from engagement thoughts. Another good way is to go out and have fun with your friends, that serves as a reminder that you don’t need to be engaged to be happy and have fun 😉

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

I agree, facials, massages, travel and the gym! That’s my plan. At least with the gym, you’ll be in shape and ready when he does propose! My sister & I are going on a cruise for 8 days. Maybe that’ll speed him up, me being gone for that long.LOL

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

The gym for sure. Maybe take up a new class that you can get really into like spinning or pilates. Also try joining a book club can be quite good for taking your mind off things.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Whenever I get frustrated about engagement/wedding stuff I either bury myself in school or hit the gym. Or call my girls to whine. A massage sounds like a fantastic idea! Whatever you choose to think about it less make sure it’s a hobby that’s easily accessible! 

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