- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I don’t want to whine at all in this post, so I’ll do my best not to. My Fiance has been at his new job for a month now, and I am so proud of him and all of the hard work he is doing! I really appreciate him stepping up and getting a 9-5 job, I really am…but, there are some days where I just miss him. We don’t live together,and at this point, we only see each other maybe twice a week. My work schedule conflicts with his, and right now, I just miss him. He usally works 9-5, but lately, he has been working from 4am-1:30pm, and I start work at 3:30-8pm. Today, it hit me hard (…I may just be reeling from my time of the month and a family member becoming very ill) and I am having a hard time keeping myself from breaking down. He usually doesn’t work Saturdays, but lately, that’s changed as well…I kind of would like the weekends with him, but my friends also want time to hang out or chat (again, I would rather be with him than out with friends right now). How do you ladies juggle not being able to see your Fiance over the week? I haven’t been able to master the art of keeping busy the whole week, and today, it just hit me hard. So, with that said, how do you ladies juggle everything and really make time to see your FI?? How do you keep yourself going when some days, you just need him and want to snuggle up with him? I really commend and applaud each and every woman who is in love with a man in uniform or is in a long distance relationship. I cannot even imagine what you ladies go through.