(Closed) How do people react to your stress/calm?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I hear ya! Every time I get a LITTLE (we’re talking teensy) bit stressed or irked about something (or i tell someone "this is important, dont forget") my parents tell me I need to calm down, take a deep breath, and all that sort of stuff.

I find it really frickin’ annoying and it makes it a lot worse than just saying "ok!" 

Let’s switch!! =p

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2009

AAHHH! I hate that! My Fiance is very supportive most of the time, but he has his go-to reply that makes me want to flip out…"Don’t worry about it babe."  What?!? Don’t worry about it? This is only the biggest day of my life and the single largest party I have EVER planned. Just a little support, true-honest support, its all I ask for lol.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

My FH is pretty supportive most of the time, but of course he peppers the support by calling me Miss cranky pants at the same time GRRR!

Post # 6
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908 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

UGH!!  I totally understand!  As soon as I get a little stressed my FH makes it 100X worse by telling me that I’m cranky. 

He also really annoys me b/c he gets tunnel vision with one aspect of the wedding.  Like right now, we are working on invitations.  Every day he askes me about the invitations and makes suggestions about what I could be doing to speed up the process.  What he doesn’t realize is that I’m focusing on invitations, favors, readings for the ceremony, flower girl dresses, flowers and about 100 other things.  It drives me nuts! 

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