(Closed) How do we stop his ex-girlfriend from coming to family functions?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow she is completely psycho, I would completely feel the same if I were in your position. Just have to remember that she is nothing, and you have the love of your Fiance. I would definitely let your Fiance bring it up to his family. Doesn’t make sense for her to still be in any of your guys lives. 

Post # 4
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I know how you feel… My husbands ex is still in the picture but only because of their children (they were never married… thank god) so i understand to some extent.

What i can’t understand is how his family is accepting her as if she is still part of their life. Your partner really needs to speak to his family and tell them that they need to SHOVE her out of their lives aswel.

I’m so mad after reading your post… i just wanna slap that girl and tell her to build a bridge and get over it… his with you and not her!

But you also have to remember that your Fiance IS with you… he loves you… it seems like its just his family that isn’t really helping with the situation.


I hope everything works out

Post # 5
540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

kick her ass?  totally kidding.  I would definately have a heart to heart with this little neurotic psycho!

Post # 6
1253 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you should get over it and be the bigger person. If I was in your FI’s mom’s position, and someone came to my father’s funeral to show their respects, absolutely I would embrace that and appreciate them for coming. I would not be rude, snub or ignore them because 3 years ago they called my son’s then-girlfriend a whore. It’s just so petty, especially considering it was a funeral. I understand that it must have been horrible to hear them calling you names, but seriously, get over it already!!! DIdn’t it happen years ago?? Let bygones be bygones, and get on with your life. And if she keeps showing up, so what. You are engaged, you should be secure enough in your relationship not to let it bother you.

Post # 7
1643 posts
Bumble bee

Your Fiance needs to grow some balls and tell her to not come around anymore. They are over. How many years has this been going on? Are you marrying a man or a child?

Post # 8
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

might i recommend a restraining order a few weeks before the wedding? give them time to get her served and make sure you and your Fiance have your names on it so she cant catch one of you alone…

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