(Closed) How do you and your partner sleep in bed?

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Post # 2
1396 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011


TiaMP:  At the beginning of the night we sleep cuddled, our boston terrier sometimes sleeps with us if she is in the mood. THen later into the night we usually end up on “our sides” of the bed with numerous pillows around us and the dog laying somewhere in the bed LOL.

Post # 3
7905 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

We start off facing each other, but by morning, we are facing away from each other. He starts off as big spoon, but I tend to wake up earlier and then take over being big spoon or the jetpack. 

Post # 5
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Lets seeee ….well usually he is spooning me or i am laying on his chest. Then after awhile we have our backs to each other. SOmetimes i wake up and he is cuddling me. Ive woken up a few times bc he was pulling me into him 🙂

Post # 6
2639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

TiaMP:  I am a very fitful sleeper, always moving, but we start out with him on his back and I snuggle into his side, with my head on his shoulder, his arm around me. Granted, that only happens 2-3 nights per week, because Darling Husband works 2nd shift. The other nights, he comes to bed much after me, and he has to fight to get 1/4 of it 😛

Post # 7
665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I hate being touched when I am sleeping! Fiance has to stay on his side of the bed. lol. I sleep very hot so I need him to keep his distance. If it were up to him he would be wrapped around me all night. 

I love to suggle just not when I am trying to sleep. We cuddle when we get in bed watching tv, or out on the couch watching tv we always cuddle. 

Post # 8
9528 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

We cuddle at first, then roll over to our sides. One dog lays next to daddy’s side of the bed. The other sleeps at my feet. Until we will are alseep. Occasionally the dog at my feet sneaks up to my pillow, lays across it so his head is next to daddy’s head and his butt is right by my head. He is the gassy dog too.

Post # 9
366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2020 - Black Mountain Lodge at Arapahoe Basin

Before we fall asleep, we lay close together, either spooning or I’ll be laying on his chest but we both like our space when we’re actually trying to fall asleep or sleeping so we move apart eventually. We’re also odd (or so I’ve been told by my friends) because we sleep with seperate blankets. In the morning, we actually set our alarm fifteen minutes earlier than we have to get up so we can have some cuddle time before the day starts. Perfect way to start the day! 

Post # 10
2669 posts
Sugar bee

We sleep in separate rooms due to his snoring.  So I spread out on the bed and far as I want and have as many blankets as I want.  Which is a good thing as this past winter has been brutal.  I’m all bundled up and he walks around in t shirts and sleeps with a sheet over himself.  I need a down comforter and a heavy faux fur throw over me.

Post # 11
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

We start off as him being big spoon, then we usually end up with our backs to each other, toy aussie dog on one side, him in the middle, then me. 

Post # 12
7200 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

TiaMP:  We usually cuddle face-to-face when we first get in bed. Eventually we say good night and he turns with his back to me and I lay face down. He’s still kind of cuddled up/leaning against me. In the morning he usually rolls over still mostly alseep and spoons me. 

Post # 14
40 posts
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Our Lady Scapular and Inn on the Twenty

LOL, we sleep exactly like you.  My Darling Husband starts off spooning me but he has a sore back so I know he wants to lean into me so of course I become the ‘little’ big spoon.  I am 5ft3in and my Darling Husband is 6ft2in and I have to cradle him.  I tease him about it but it works for us and it’s so comfy.

Post # 15
168 posts
Blushing bee

I think there a thread with this same question somewhere. I answer it already, but I repaste.

I tend to be on my stomach whenever I’m in bed (sleep or not). I dunno, play with my phone, play with my laptop in bed, Lol!…. Eversince I know my husband, laying on stomach is bad possition to be in bed, because he loves to kiss my butt cheek… Everytime he see me on my stomach, I know what he gonna do.

Hubby tend to sleep on his side, facing me side. I try to sleep in other possitions, but I always end up with sleep on my stomach…. He sure can sleep in one possition, he rarely move much…. While me, I twist and turn, I kick him sometimes too. But he never get mad, he just laugh at it and tell me to go back to sleep….. Morning, I told him I’m sorry for the kick, he just smile and tell me I can kick him anytime I want, Lol!

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