(Closed) How do you and your SO/FI/DH feel about oral?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How do you and your's feel about oral? Please select all that apply
    I like to receive and give : (91 votes)
    37 %
    I only like to give but not receive : (16 votes)
    7 %
    I like to receive but not give : (19 votes)
    8 %
    My SO likes to recieve but no give : (15 votes)
    6 %
    My SO likes to give but not recieve : (5 votes)
    2 %
    My SO likes to give and receive : (91 votes)
    37 %
    Other : (9 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    3295 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    we both love to give and recieve ๐Ÿ™‚ i agree it would be hard if we didnt both enjoy it so much.

    Post # 4
    13095 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Both of us have no problem giving or receiving and it is a very important part of our sex life.

    Post # 5
    1221 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I love to give, I could take or leave the receive. Darling Husband doesn’t like to give, but of course he likes to receive.

    Post # 6
    929 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    This area of our sex life has slowed down the longer we’ve been together – in the first 2 years or so we did both all the time!  Lately its something we intersperse with regular sex when one of us is inclined.  I know he’d like to receive more…and i’m guilty of putting it off alot of the time, out of laziness..though i sometimes exchange it for him taking out the garbage or cleaning the litter box…blow jobs as currency, we both call it ๐Ÿ™‚  I figure it doesn’t make me a prostitute if its my fiance. 

    Post # 7
    4354 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I love to give, somewhat reluctant to receive.. turn it down often. SO likes to give but I don’t think he cares when I say no cause it just means more for him.

    Post # 8
    3586 posts
    Sugar bee

    We both like to give and receive. I’m gonna get flack for this, but I don’t like men who don’t like to give and expect to receive. I’d only dated one guy like that though, so I didn’t realllly have to deal with it cause we lasted about 3 months at the most.

    I’m just glad my SO likes both. He never really did it before me(give), but he likes it now.LOL

    Post # 9
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I love to give it to him, and he certainly loves recieving.  ๐Ÿ™‚  I do like to recieve as well from time to time, but I get the feeling it’s not his favorite thing.  We’ve never talked about it, so I don’t know.  I know I like the way his fingers or penetration feel more than oral, and I don’t need oral to have an orgasm, so it’s not a big deal for us.

    Post # 10
    7693 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Darling Husband did not like to give for a long time! After a few years of dating he finally got into it and now he likes to give because of the power it has over me! I like to give and receive as well ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 11
    206 posts
    Helper bee

    @MsMamaBear: I have to agree. Selfish in the sack doesn’t fly with me. If my SO did not like to give (which he really does) he would certainly not be receiving!

    Post # 12
    2154 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011


    I agree with you both! I’ve never been with someone like that, but I think “selfish in the sack” bodes poorly.

    Post # 13
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had a boyfriend in HS who didn’t like to give (he was weirdly freaked out about it), so I refused to give it. Tit for tat and all that.. 

    Actually, my Darling Husband is the first guy I’ve ever been with who really likes to give it. Loves to give it. I actually prefer his hands, but not a peep of complaint when he heads downstairs..

    For my part, I *love* giving, and he loves receiving, although he prefers it as an appetizer rather than the main course.

    Post # 14
    45 posts

    We both love giving and receiving but I think I love to give more than to receive.. But he does oral when he finishes before me which I like cus he doesnt just roll over and fall asleep.. he wants to make sure Im taken care of.. lol! He is such a good man.

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