- 4 years ago
- Wedding: December 2016
This is my first post and I’m so excited LOL! I’ll try not to rant but can’t promise anything.
Me and my bf have been together for 2 years and I’ve never wanted to get married as I’ve never really seen the point and plus all marriages I’ve seen have failed epically so never really left me with a positive vibe! I am one of those strange women where I need time to be ready and accept things, even my own feelings towards my bf lol. So now I’m madly in love and quite happy to let others know without feeling like a lovesick twit and he has been dropping obvious hints about wanting to marry me for 1 1/2 years and I’m finally ready to accept that I do want to be with Mr C forever and EVER! Yay!
So long story short we went to a ‘wedding fair’ which wasn’t a wedding fair but just a venue where they tell you what you can have package wise, all good because we both fell in love with the place and the wedding planner is really nice (I was expecting a snobby wench lol) and I can see us tying the knot there. So we go home and start to talk about rings and look at lots online and I just fall in love with anything that shines ha!
We had to go into town and he suggested on the day to go ring shopping (squeeling like a fool internally at this point) and try on a few different ring styles. Everything I thought I’d love looked horrid and then we find this one ring and it’s like POW this is the one! He loves it (really important to me that he did as he’s buying it) and I love it and both decide that this is the ring that he will propose to me with (wooooooooop) and I can’t wait!
Two weeks later and I think I’m going crazy! To the stage that I’m dreaming about finding the ring but try to ignore it so he can surprise me and other wedding/proposal related dreams. So now to the main point, how did you all cope knowing that he would be buying the ring (before christmas he says) and he has told me that he ‘needs to surprise me’ as I know what ring I’m getting, which makes me laugh because he has been telling his family and friends in front of me that we are getting married and have found the venue lol and he hasn’t asked me yet and even his mum told him to make sure he asks me properly!