(Closed) How do you bees feel about 3-ring sets, 2 wedding bands and e-ring?

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
13563 posts
Honey Beekeeper

What does your engagement ring look like? If you like the look of two wedding bands, then I say go for it. 🙂 Your Fiance could put just one on for the ceremony, and you could add the other later, if you’re okay with that. I wouldn’t worry about the ceremony too much. 🙂

Post # 4
1529 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@Murph2be: i will be wearing two wedding bands. i have issues with things having to be even.

Post # 5
7586 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You just have him slip one on your finger and then you put your e-ring and the other band on afterwards. Or you can have them all put together so that they are just one ring.

Post # 7
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

My wedding band is a wrap or sometimes called a guard. It has two bands already attached and my e ring slides right into the center of it. It will be taken into the jeweler about a week before the wedding to be soldered. So that will be what he slides on my finger, just one big ring.

Post # 8
830 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Double post

Post # 9
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am going to have two wedding bands. 

At the ceremony I will wear my engagement ring on my right hand and he will put both wedding bands on my left hand.  I really want both of the wedding bands to be part of the ceremony so that I’ll always feel like they’re both my “real” wedding bands.

If you like the look of two bands then I definitely think you should go for it.

Post # 10
3000 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think you should include both wedding bands in the ceremony, as they’ll then feel special and sacred to you. When he grabs the bands from the ring bearer, have him pinch the two rings together and slide them on at the same time (as opposed to one band, then e-ring, then other band). You can switch the order later, but this way, all three of your rings will be your official wedding set.

Post # 11
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you’re thinking of getting your rings soldered together, you could have this done before the wedding and have your fiance place them on your finger that way.  

Post # 13
907 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am in the same situation. I have chosen to wear my engagement ring on my right hand during the wedding. During the Mass, he’ll slip on both of my wedding bands, in one motion, holding them together. After the ceremony, I’ll put my engagment ring between them. I am not getting them soldered because I like the flexibilty to wear them different ways or separately.

Post # 14
122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

Same here! I’ll just have Fiance slip both bands on, and i will wear my ering on the right hand 🙂

Post # 15
285 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I want to get 2 bands too.. I was thinking of tying (is that the right spelling? sorry my crazy english) them with a white or red thread.. not sure if it’s cheesy or tacky, but I just find that idea quite romantic for some reason…

Post # 16
4411 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - Savannah, GA

My wedding ring is a wrap, so it looks like two rings, but it’s actually one.  When we got married, Darling Husband had my wedding ring in his pocket. When the pastor asked for the rings, we both gave the wedding rings to the pastor, and then I took off my engagement ring and gave it to Darling Husband.  DH then put my e-ring into my wedding ring before he put it on my finger. 

One thing you might want to consider if you aren’t going to have your rings soldered, is to have the wedding bands made into a wrap/guard by having the jeweler connect them with two or three bars.  It will help keep your rings lined up properly and not spin on your finger. 

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