(Closed) How do you clean up after? VERY TMI.

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 47
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10285 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

@hilsy85: Thats so funny you said that because I really thought that I was the only one who cleaned myself up after. Nice to see I’m not alone.

Post # 48
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1557 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

We keep tissues by the bed, and I clean up right after, then go use the bathroom to clean up further. 

Honestly, it’s not a huge deal, but it *does* get annoying if it’s the middle of the night. I hate when you’re half asleep, you just finished, and then you have to turn the lights on, find the tissues, run to the bathroom… but I’m a lady who *really* likes her sleep. πŸ™‚ 

Post # 49
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

LOL this thread is great. πŸ™‚

I read in my Taking Charge of Your Fertility book that in addition to peeing, you can kinda kegel it out, if you know what I mean. Thought I’d pass along the tip! haha.

Post # 50
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216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I second the warm wash cloth for him- I think it’s a nice gesture plus they’re usually a bit tired after ;).

Post # 51
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3586 posts
Sugar bee

Missadventure- LOL!

Post # 52
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751 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

This is hilarious.  Before TTC we were using condoms and while they aren’t always the best, I did love the “containment” and that it wasn’t my problem when we were done πŸ™‚  Now I do what everyone else does, the good old pee and wipe!  I also throw on a pantyliner if I am going out and not right to sleep. 

Post # 53
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1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

We always hop in the shower together after sex. I never wash anything with soap, but I usually just take my fingers and kind of “clean up” anything that has seeped back out. 

Post # 54
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1557 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mrs.peters.to.be: Pure Romance party? My Maid/Matron of Honor is a consultant πŸ™‚ I’ve been to so many PR parties that I have almost run out of products to buy! (I guess I should disclaimer that I haven’t bought many toys, though)

I have actually purchased this product…. for wet spot, it works so-so… What’s it’s best for is “Mountain Dew” (aka: Boob sweat) It dries as a powder, so you spray a little under your ladies and you’re good to go! 

Post # 55
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

We aren’t TTC. We use condoms around the time that I’m ovulating and I agree with PP that I like that it’s less messy!! When we don’t use condoms, I always get up, go pee, & wipe up. Sometimes I’ll use a wet wash cloth..it just depends. & It helps to do *ahem* kegal exercises, like @littlemissmango suggested (:

Post # 56
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152 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I dont let him go in me — so scared of pregnancy before the wedding lol. He pulls out and goes on my stomach and then i take a shower.

Post # 57
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271 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

This is one of the TOP 5 THREADS in WEDDINGBEE HISTORY! haha Thank you!

I find it funny when people get uncomfy with “TMI” subjects or what they ASSUME is Too Much Information. We are ALL WOMEN here looking for advice and friendship, it’s not like we are talking about this with family/coworkers or men. I say, just let it out and say or ask whatever you want girl! πŸ™‚

 

My response to this is… Whipe and PEE ASAP after having sex. I myself have gone through having a UTI once for the exact reason of this subject. My doctor (who is a woman) told me she had the SAME problem before and it is because she didn’t PEE after.

So, I always make sure to whipe and run to the bathroom right after sex to pee anything out. Then of course… shower in the morning. I never had a UTI again! πŸ™‚

Post # 58
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

This thread is awesome.  πŸ™‚

I’m pretty much the same – pee, wipe, etc.  I’m also a big fan of the warm washcloth.  I like to clean up, and I think it’s really sexy to go and clean him up afterward when he’s all uber relaxed.  It’s also great if we use lube in our foreplay – helps clean up sticky fingers, which drive me crazy!

Post # 59
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I always go pee afterward. And wait for the remaining seepage to, um, seep? Lol. Then I usually end up going pee a bit later — I’ve had a few UTI’s, so I try to get everything out, ya know? Then I usually wash with a warm towel.  

@mrs.peters — That spray sounds pretty nifty!

@hilsy85: I know, right?? In the movies they always cuddle or fall asleep right after. Psh… if only.

Post # 60
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869 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I usually just use a towel or the shirt I was wearing to wipe off myself and him and then go to sleep. I have never had a UTI…not even when I was pregnant! I just don’t worry about it. “It” never comes out while I’m sleeping for some reason. He has only gone in me a couple times before I was pregnant (I was using spermicide that didn’t work) and threw the whole pregnancy and “it” only came out when I got up to go to the bathroom in the morning. After I had the baby we went back to the pull-out method so there is a lot more clean up and we end up taking turns having to clean up. lol Sometimes I don’t get any on me at all and he is the only one that has to wipe up!

Post # 61
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’ve been around for a few years now and I have to say that this is one thread topic I’ve never come across!  LOL  And I also have to say it’s funny how it’s one of those people don’t really talk about IRL, in movies, or even a lot of books!

Threads like these = one of the many reasons I love Weddingbee! πŸ™‚

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