(Closed) How do you deal with those days when you want to throw your SO off your roof?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I usually get out of the house, whether it be shopping, going for a run, or meeting a friend for a vent session! He hates when I just up and leave, but sometimes I need to clear my head!

Post # 4
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1667 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MrsMcGyro: i take my frustrations out on our house. Darling Husband knows he is in the doghouse when he comes home to find the house COMPLETELY clean, otherwise, there is always something messy.

But wine also really really helps. Sadly, I fly off the handle at him more than I should, like last night when i had to FORCE him to sit down and write two thank you notes, it’s been almost 4 months since our wedding btw, and he was whining about writing them! I want to kill him sometimes, i really do. . .it’s like he is 10 years old

Post # 5
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I feel like this right now!!! FH is pissing me off today because he keeps making excuses to skip class. I know I’m not his mom so I don’t nag, but why ask me if you should go to class, and then you don’t? WTF?! lol

Usually, I say my opinion once, then I stop talking about it. The more I talk about something, the angrier I get. I try to take a walk or doing some retail therapy. Luckily, he works nights, so I have those to myself.

Post # 6
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7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

We retreat to separate corners and pout silently.  I usually break first and need to talk it out.  I can’t go too long without resolving it – lest I drive myself bonkers.

If I’m just plain frustrated vs. uspet, I realize I start to CLEAN of all things … gotta get the aggresion out SOMEHOW.

Post # 7
Hostess
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

Is it bad that my first thought was….do it and hope he bounces? LOL! I kid, I kid.

If I am having a bad day he usually knows it and tries to tread lightly. If he has done something that annoys me he usually gives me distance for a while until I cool down. I am the personality type that doesn’t cling to issues for a long period of time and typically forget what I was upset about.

Post # 8
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3943 posts
Honey bee

I have a really bad temper.  Usually I either just go to another room and try to cool off. Last week I was annoyed (I dont even remember why), so I left and went to get a pedicure. By the time I got back I had forgotten why I was mad 🙂

Post # 9
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5572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

We are pouters lol. I’ll clean (loudly) and he’ll just sit/lay where he was. A lot of the time I’ll just get frustrated and he won’t understand why (usually I’m just being irritable) and he’ll just go on with his normal business as I’m banging the dishwasher door shut! After awhile I’ll cave and we’ll talk it out and it’s all better 🙂

Post # 11
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7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I usually bake up a storm, that’s the cue for him that I’m pissed off big time. I’ll also clean like crazy. Then when I’m calm again we talk lol. He’s the opposite, he just pouts for ever

Post # 12
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588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Oh, I’m having one of those days. Fiance works nights and he has been doing major overyime this week. I get it, he’s tired. I take care of our daughter all day, every day with the only break being nap time and I manage to cook, clean, do laundry, do dishes, take out the trash, go food shopping, as well as work (DD comes with me!) and try to take care of myself. This morning I asked him if he could please put the dirty dishes in the dishwasher and he said, “Why can’t you? It’s not that hard. You just rinse them off and put them in.” I swear I almost told him to go sleep in the car. Instead I calmly reminded him that for the past week he has not done one single chore and even made a verbal list for him. I have an excellent memory and he often forgets it. I sent him to bed without a kiss goodnight, too! Hmph. 

ETA: I realize I went a bit off topic, but damn it feels good to vent.

Post # 13
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2548 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I usually kick him out and make him sleep in his truck for the night. Tongue out

Post # 14
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1667 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@MrsMcGyro: sooo true! It’s always his mess I’m cleaning, which then gives me another reason to seeth. I’ll be passive aggressive sometimes and seperate out my laundry from his and only do mine, but then he gets more mad! Ughh, we need Dr. Phil to just camp out in our living room

Post # 15
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7339 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsMcGyro: oh that was your 1000th post!!! Yay! Sorry I get excited haha

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