Post # 46
no, that’s not what she implied at all. I have reason to believe that she’s a huge feminist so I don’t believe for a second she’d try to talk me into staying if I were 100% fed up and unhappy. I believe she was just trying to help me navigate the situation with an objective view, rather than only focusing on the negative aspect of the situation. It helped me to get away from my emotions at the present time and look at the entire relationship as a whole.
and thank you, bee. I’m certainly rooting for you too ❤️
Post # 47
From everything I’ve read you are ultimately going to the end the relationship with him, as you know you should. However, you are doing the right thing by focusing on yourself right now and being the best you that you can be. Your therapist is helping you engage your logical, less emotional self so when you do make the decision to leave him behind it will be from a position of strength, and you won’t have any doubt that you made the right decision.
Post # 48
Here’s a therapy exercise that will help you: make a list of every crappy thing he has ever said or done to you.