How do you feel about husbands looking at porn at work?

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you be ok with your husband looking at porn everyday in his spare time?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    9 %
    No : (107 votes)
    91 %
  • Post # 2
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    darksky111 :  a better question would be, how does his place of employment feel about this??

    I would be furious if my husband risked his job every single day 

    Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2019

    I think its very unprofessional and could lead to problems at work, but aside from that I dont care.

    Is your issue the porn itself, the lying, or the looking while at work?

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I think it’s weird just to look at porn without it being a “means to an end” – like what’s the point if he’s not getting off to it? And yeah, I’d be pissed that he thought that was an appropriate thing to do at work. 

    Post # 5
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    36 posts
    Newbee

    Oh yeah – I’d be fuming if I knew my fiance was doing that. Keep it home and private like the rest of us. Is it possible he has an addiction to it? Very odd to look at porn without a means to an end – as another commentor stated. 

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2018

    not great.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee

    No, I would not be ok with it. Unless he need a freelance that worked from home without risk of clients calling. My bf us free to watch porn at home in privacy whenever he wants. But definitely not in the office. I don’t know if it goes under harassment if someone catches him but it is so wrong. Also he could get fired. If he cannot wait till home then he has a problem.

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I think regardless of opinion on the porn industry in general, I think 99.99% would agree looking at it at work is a no-go.

    Post # 9
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    2360 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I don’t give a crap about my SO watching porn, but watching at work?  That’s a hard no from me.  

    Post # 10
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    5871 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2016

    Your Fiance is either incredibly stupid or has some serious sex related issues. If he is unable to distinguish appropriate time and place for porn viewing and, as others have said, risking getting caught at work on a regular basis…

    And, on top of that, he was lying to you about it (so he knows it’s a problem). 

    Nah- dump his ass before you end up like Huma with Anthony Weiner’s stupid ass.

    Post # 11
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    269 posts
    Helper bee

    Looking at porn at work is generally a violation of several policies, even if done on break. Most companies have policies in place outlining appropriate use of company assets, including computers and internet.

    Without getting into the details, unless he is doing this on his personal phone using cellular data, there is a very good chance the IT team knows at a minimum. Work is not place for private activities.

    Post # 12
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    193 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2019

    So to be specific…I am ok with him watching porn..even I watch porn every once in a while and sometimes we do it together. But at work and constantly? Nope. That’s a no no. He is risking his job. 

    Post # 13
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2016

    WTF?! At work?!?!

    I hope your fiance is prepared to get fired if his boss ever finds out!

    Post # 15
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    326 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

    I mean, he’d get fired, so I’d feel very Not Good about it. 

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