How do you feel about husbands looking at porn at work?

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you be ok with your husband looking at porn everyday in his spare time?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    9 %
    No : (107 votes)
    91 %
  • Post # 16
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

    darksky111 :  That is super weird and concerning that he’s doing this at work. What is he thinking?! Does he not care if he gets fired? I’d be flaming mad. 

    Post # 17
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    388 posts
    Helper bee

    Hold on, the title says at work but the question is “in his spare time”.

    I dont care if SO watches some porn in his spare time, but at work is just not appropriate. Also, I don’t care if my SO sometimes watches porn (generally for masturbatory purposes) but if someone is spending “every free moment” watching pornography that’s pretty indicative of a problem with porn imo

    Post # 19
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    charlie057 :  even in his spare time at work, which how I was reading it (watching porn during work breaks) would be completely inappropriate and probably against policy

    Post # 20
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    1164 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2018

    At work?? Hell no. He’s gonna get fired and also, that kinda sounds like it’s approaching porn addiction territory.

    Post # 21
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    189 posts
    Blushing bee

    My SO works in IT, you’d be surprised at how many people actually watch stuff like this at work and IT comes and confiscates their computers. That being said, it’s not okay and his company’s IT team will most definitely catch on. He’s using their network, nothing he browses is private. 

    Post # 22
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    181 posts
    Blushing bee

    Whoa, what?

    Even during his off-time at work, this is really weird and wouldn’t fly with me at all. Like PPs, I have no issue with SO watching porn on his honest-to-god off time at home… but at work…? And not masturbating to it…? This is all kinds of strange.

    Post # 23
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    202 posts
    Helper bee

    Unlike the other commenters, I wouldn’t be ok with him watching porn at all, let alone at work!  That’s extremely reckless behavior and I think he has issues.

    Post # 25
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    9573 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: City, State

    Well, my husband works with children. So in general, not good.

    Post # 26
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2018

    It’s “before” not “b4”

    your man has a problem, it’s not normal or healthy to lie in order to take extra breaks at work in order to watch porn…

    darksky111 :  

    Post # 28
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    darksky111 :  my husband does look at porn at work  but he works in I.T for his company and it is his job to look at what comes through the filter from the dumb people like your husband who send dirty emails, look up dodgy stuff on the work computer or send on inappropriate videos or images. My hubby shakes his head and still wonders how so many idiotic people exist and don’t understand what professional conduct is and risk their lively hood for an image of a pair of breasts, a penis or a vagina 🙄

    Seriously your partner is really dumb and has major issues if he thinks his place of work is the appropriate place to get his jollies and look at porn. 

    Post # 29
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    4987 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    This is not normal. I would not be with a partner who couldn’t get through the work day without looking at 30 minutes of porn. 

    Post # 30
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    6670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2016

    darksky111 :  Okay this dude obviously has a porn addiction. 

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