How do you feel about husbands looking at porn at work?

posted 3 months ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you be ok with your husband looking at porn everyday in his spare time?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    9 %
    No : (107 votes)
    91 %
  • Post # 31
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

    llevinso :  Absolutely. Once a week or even once every few days is not so bad. But 3x day?! That is just not necesssary. 

    Post # 32
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    4700 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    He still has a job?

    Post # 34
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    196 posts
    Blushing bee

    Porn. Addiction. 

    And really poor judgement…

    Post # 36
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    893 posts
    Busy bee

    Yea your husband has a porn addiction and needs help. Hopefuly he can see someone about this? Watching it at work and while with your 5 yr old daughter are red flags that need to be addressed. 

    Post # 38
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    468 posts
    Helper bee

    That seems very much like an addiction.

    Post # 39
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    1160 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

    He needs to seek therapy. This is not normal, bee, and it’s impacting both your sex life and potentially could get him fired. It’s destructive. 

    Post # 40
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    570 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2020

    Yeah, that’s an addiction. I’m sorry, bee. 

    Post # 41
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    425 posts
    Helper bee

    I am confused by this question because it isn’t oddly worded. How do you feel about a partner watching porn in her or his free time is quite different than work. Your sentence is ambiguous—- in what context does your spouse work? A freelancer in their own living room is pretty different than a manager in their office.

     

    edit—- I see you have answered this question

    now but it won’t let me delete.

    Post # 42
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    1328 posts
    Bumble bee

    Why the heck is he looking at that at work? I’d be more worried about him putting his job in jeopardy!

    Post # 43
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    617 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2018 - City, State

    …. at WORK??

    Unless he’s literally doing film editing for an adult content company, I’d say that’s a Big Fucking Deal.

    As married person who happily consumes porn (both alone and with my partners), I’m not bothered by the use of porn in general. However, if he’s doing it at work, he could get in a LOT of trouble for that. I think that’s demonstrative of pretty piss-poor judgment, tbh; we would have words about it.

    Post # 44
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    4905 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    He calls you a stalker?

    dude’s quite the charmer, isn’t he.

    Post # 45
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    676 posts
    Busy bee

    darksky111 :  I don’t care if my fiancé check out porn at home, but at work would strike me as odd. I hope your hubby is not caught by his employer. I would assume your hubby to have an addiction at this point if he can’t wait to look at it from the privacy of his own home. 

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