How do you feel about husbands looking at porn at work?

posted 5 months ago in Relationships
  • poll: Would you be ok with your husband looking at porn everyday in his spare time?
    Yes : (11 votes)
    9 %
    No : (107 votes)
    91 %
  • Post # 61
    Member
    576 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    Your question and your poll are different. I don’t care about porn or masturbation. We have plenty of great sex and I don’t have a problem with it.

    But if he did it at work, then yeah, that would be bad. He’s an elementary school teacher.

    Regardless of any job, it’s way unprofessional.

    Post # 62
    Member
    459 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2019

    Ok, so you established that you‘re not alone with thinking that it is not a normal behaviour, but have you had serious conversation with him? Does he think his behaviour is normal or does he see that there might be a problem? Because if he‘s an addict, it will affect your sex life.  

    Post # 63
    Member
    743 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: City, State

    darksky111 :  So your post title and the question are very different. I would be upset if he was doing anything inappropriate at work, because that’s fucking stupid.

    As far as porn and/or masturbation, they don’t bother me in moderation. If he was doing this every single day, it would bother me. 

    I feel like doing anything unproductive every day is bad. Especially at work.

    ETA I just read your first update. I would beat the fucking shit out of my husband if he was watching porn near my kids. I would be in the divorce attorneys office the next business day. You do you on your time but leave my kids out of it. I don’t care if he wasn’t thinking about kids or they didnt see. I’m all for legalization of marijuana but I think it’s fucking irresponsible to smoke it in front of your kids. Go free bird when it’s grown up time but alcohol, drugs, and sex need to be kept away from kids. A psychologist would have a big problem with his behavior, especially if he’s watching it when there’s a chance your kids could see it. Fuck no.

    Post # 64
    Member
    133 posts
    Blushing bee

    OP it is already to the point where he can’t even control himself at work! This has become unchecked. The future is really not looking good at all… Counselling, rehab I don’t know what will help best buy sthg has to be done. 

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