(Closed) How do you feel about other women checking you out?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Um…I don’t care.  It’s the same as if a guy checks me out.

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Haha, I’d probably be more flattered than if a man checks me out! I guess I get a creepy vibe when guys do it (vulnerable, vaguely threatened), but if a woman does, I feel like maybe my outfit is really cute, or I look particularly good that day 🙂

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’ve never noticed a woman checking me out but if I did I would feel flattered.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2014

it’s just such a common occurrence I don’t worry about it. As a woman, I feel like it’s something we do almost unconsciuosly from a very young age. I do it myself without realizing it. It’s not sexual but I do it automatically to both men and women. I look to see if she’s wearing cuter shoes than me, if she’s prettier, and I make judgements about that person on their appearance. I do all that in like 5 seconds of seeing a person and i know they do it to me. No big deal, it’s human nature.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

I’m a lesbian, I don’t really check other women out unless there’s something that sticks out about them, and that’s usually types of clothing that accentuate and/or draw attention to something in particular about that woman. I hope I make sense. I don’t really take much notice of other people when I’m out and about, I’ve never really noticed anyone else checking me out, if I did I’d probably be amused but not think much of it.

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

Jennybee224:  My DH says he notices women giving me the hardcore stare down all the time. I never really notice because I’m not a people watcher the way he is and I’m usually more distracted by my surroundings. I don’t really care. If I made eye contact I would probably just smile at her, or wink, to make her super uncomfortable 😉

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I’m really tall, so lots of people take a 2nd look or stare.  Whatever, I’m used to it.  

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t notice or care.  DH catches women ‘checking me out’ sometimes, he says they’re checking out their competition!  haha

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I don’t notice, but if I did I wouldn’t care. It’s just the same as if a man were looking at you.

Post # 12
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Newbee

The same way I’d feel about a man checking me out: if they’re not creepy about it I might feel flattered. If they are, they’d best keep their distance.

Though my SO and I have an ongoing joke that everyone keeps hitting on him because he’s gotten compliments from people of all genders. haha

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

I’d have the same reaction to anyone else looking at me, stare back and unintentionally scare them off with my resting bitch face.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Jennybee224:  makes me unconfortable. its the body check. i honestly feel like shes trying to see how fit i am. maybe it is something im wearing  but most the time its the body check. they are trying to size me up today. a man is looking at you because he likes it. a woman is looking at you because shes prob compairing herself to you or competeing (or she likes your skirt idk). i feel like depending on the vibe they are trying to challenge me in a small way. but i guess im barbaric. i dont like people looking at me, i feel like they are trying to judge me with the whole body check thing. and i dont mean “you are walking down the street and someone is looking at you” i mean the “you are having a convo with a group and that one person is looking at you down and then up and then down again.”

Post # 15
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Blushing bee

It happened to me before. To be honest, I feel flattered compared to a guy checking me out. Except for this one time where this lady was trying to kiss me on the lips

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