- 4 years ago
Say your husband is the most attractive Doctor, Lawyer or Public Figure in your area..( I am not saying mine is, lol :))
He is on linkedin (which is a professional networking site) and you don’t mind if random women message him because well it’s not a big deal and you should be flattered.
Say this started happening like everyday though… Everday your man got 2-3 random messages from women trying to pursue him, flirting with him, asking for his info or to chat etc. They find him by searching doctors, lawyers in their area.
You see this because YOU were the one who set up his linkedin for him…
It says Married on his profile, but it doesn’t stop trashy women(with profile pics with their boobs half out) messaging him every day.
Now I know it DOESNT matter because YOU have him, not those women, but don’t you think the temptation of every single day, having these women come onto him, could possibly be bad for yalls relationship or his ego?
What would you do? If your man gave you complete control of it..
Delete the chicks that send inappropriate messages?
Don’t accept random chicks?
I want him to be able to accept random people, because it could create opportunity for career advances, however even the classy looking ones have sent him some pretty random, and overly flirtious messages…asking for his # and stuff.
What would you do? Would it even bother you?
Please spare me the “your being controlling, your being overly jealous rant”. If you are commenting to make me feel bad about myself dont comment.
I am looking for opinions and positive advice. Thank you so much Bees:)