How do you feel about your man going to strip clubs?

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: How do you feel about your man going to a strip club?
    I don't care at all : (66 votes)
    30 %
    I'd prefer if he didn't but it's fine : (72 votes)
    33 %
    I hate it but he still goes : (0 votes)
    He is forbidden to go to strip clubs : (80 votes)
    37 %
  • Post # 121
    Member
    351 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    The option I would pick wasn’t available:

    He doesn’t want to and never will because of his own principles. I don’t have to forbid him.

    Post # 123
    Member
    142 posts
    Blushing bee

    I wouldnt care at all. 

    It sounds mean, but we both know I’m the best piece of ass hes ever gonna get hahaha wink

    Post # 124
    Member
    2826 posts
    Sugar bee

    It wouldn’t really bother me if it was for a friends bachelor party or special event – as long as there were no lapdances. Watching women dance seems more akin to porn to me, whereas having a naked girl rubbing her body on him is cheating in my eyes/our relationship. 

    He knows my boundaries on it, but he’s not really into strip clubs so it hasn’t actually come up. He’s been invited along before, but turned it down and we did our bachelor(ette) party together. I’ve been to more strip clubs than him in my lifetime haha. 

    Post # 125
    Member
    95 posts
    Worker bee

    My SO doesn’t have any interest in going to a strip club.  All of his friends are married with kids and all of their kids are in sports so they are busy.  They are more into going to pubs for cheap wings and beers, and they are all really big into football, college football, and college basketball.  I have a feeling that when we do get engaged and he has a bachelor party then he will end up at a strip club and I dont care.  The only time it would bother me if we were really tight on cash and then he goes and spends $200 on lap dances… then we would have a problem.

    Post # 126
    Member
    407 posts
    Helper bee

    Uhm, no. Didn’t vote because I don’t “forbid” it. He doesn’t want to, has never, and will never go to one. (Same goes for me.)

    If I had to forbid it, I wouldn’t have married him. We have agreed from day one that we hold our marriage sacred, and therefore is entirely closed: the two of us only. No other pictures/bodies/what have you. 

    Post # 127
    Member
    418 posts
    Helper bee

    He has no interest in strip clubs and neither do I. We both agreed that it would be cheating. Also, we’re both pretty active and creative in the bed… sooo strip clubs are boring and kinda tacky to us lol. I guess we’re weird 😉

    Leave a comment


    Find Amazing Vendors