- 2 years ago
anonymoustoday : If everyone you date provokes insecurity and trust issues, then the problem is you and you should try therapy. But if this guy is the first one you’ve had these challenges with, I’d look at it this way: Your previous post says he’s your boyfriend (so not husband or fiance) and you’ve been dating a year. At one year in, the way to get over insecurities and trust issues is to find someone who doesn’t provoke insecurities and trust issues. Neither of you are happy in this relationship, it sounds awful for both of you. We can’t make him want to have sex with you more. YOU can’t make him want to have sex with you more. So if you’re not ok with that, you’re not ok with the relationship.