(Closed) How do you handle it?

posted 5 years ago in Family
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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erosie:  It’s difficult for everyone for so many different reasons! Ultimately, you and your fiance just need to do what’s best for you as a couple. If you don’t have the vacation time then there’s nothing you can do.

DH and I rotate Christmas. One year alone together, one year with his family and one year with mine. Everyone understands, everyone gets a turn and we don’t feel pressured trying to please everyone at once. Between the holidays we’ll meet our respective families halfway somewhere for a meal or a day out. That keeps everything ticking over nicely.

You can never please everyone, so don’t even try! This time of the year is stressful enough already. Take care.

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