(Closed) How do you honestly feel about your sibling’s SO?

posted 7 years ago in Family
  • poll: Do you like your sibling's significant other?
    Love them! : (55 votes)
    43 %
    Can't stand them! : (42 votes)
    33 %
    Never met them : (9 votes)
    7 %
    Don't care either way : (22 votes)
    17 %
  • Post # 3
    Hostess
    18637 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    I love my SIL even though we are a lot different.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2114 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    @KatyElle: I am so jealous of your post – my brothers SO / babymama is an ungrateful , gold digging , selfish , rude little biatch …to put it mildly… 

    Post # 5
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    1543 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’m an only child, but I just wanted to say that I hope (think?) my SO’s siblings feel the same way about me! I love them, and can’t wait to (officially) be a part of their family.  I’m FB friends with all of them, and though we’re not geographically close, when we all gather for family functions, I always feel loved. (Feel free to puke now, after that love-in, lol.)

    Post # 6
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    3461 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Which one?  The one I’ve met, had numerous meals/drinks with, played soccer with, etc.?  Or the one that I’ve met twice in 3+ years, didn’t respond to our engagement party invite even to say no, etc.?  The first is great.  The second, I find super funny people keep suggesting I ought to have as a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

    ETA: Oops, thought that was asking abt FI’s siblings.  My siblings SO?  One is kinda weird and I don’t totally get.  The other I invited to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man.  ๐Ÿ™‚  Originally wasn’t close, but she grew on me lots.

    Post # 7
    Member
    429 posts
    Helper bee

    ehh… dont phaze me i guess.. my mom loves her..i mean i dont hate her its just she used to be in loveee with my Fiance when they were young..yuk ..yea know you know what i mean..;/ lol

    Post # 8
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    929 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    My Brother-In-Law and I had a rough start, but we’re buddies now.  He’s softened alot with the birth of my niece.  He’s like a diamond in the rough type guy, with alot of rough before you hit the diamond ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
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    1614 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    My brother has always picked the greatest women to be with…I can’t remember a girlfriend or wife of his that I didn’t love…my sister on the other hand…ya…she’s 17 and she’s in LOOOOOVE…with a dirt bag…no job no car no motivation…no nothing…complete failure to thrive…sits around his moms trailer all day long and plays video games waiting for my sister to move heaven and earth to find a way to go the 8 miles to his house…I wish I could go into detail…but I think ya’ll get the picture….grr….and granted, nobody; doctor, lawyer, president of the United States will prolly ever truly be good enough for her in my eyes…but this guy is just scum…UGH!

    Post # 10
    Member
    155 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    My sister got married last spring and I love her husband! He definitely fits in with the family. I have 2 sisters and we are a little weird and a little obsessed with our family dog, but he embraces our weirdness and loves the dog as much as we do (he even tags the dog on Facebook when they go places).

    Post # 11
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    1150 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I have literally been a wacky Aunt Jackie to my twin sister’s Roseanne family up until this new episode of me getting married. I have been all up in their family business and seen them through fights, relocations, births and sunday dinners. I pretty much have the same relationship with my sister’s husband as she has (minus the boinking), i like him when she does and ignore him when she tells me to.

     

     

    Post # 12
    Member
    1571 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I love my sister’s husband. He’s actually the best man in our wedding.

    Post # 13
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    2496 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    Well… honestly. ๐Ÿ™‚

    DH’s sisters BF’s I adore.  I love them both to pieces and they’re so fun!  I can’t wait till they propose and are officially family.

    My brother’s Girlfriend is really sweet, but SO shy and quiet!  The girl is a little mouse!  Again, I like her, but she’s too afraid to say anything and we’ve never really had a full conversation.

    My Brother-In-Law (sister’s hubby) is really great… but he’s also a bit of an arrogant know-it-all, talks about himself all the time type of guy.  He treats my sister like gold, and would give anyone anything they needed, so he’s a great guy.  But I can only handle him in small doses!

    It’s hard to actually have the conversation be about anything but him when talking to him because he always turns it around on himself, then he’ll brag about his accomplishments in the Marines, which, granted, are pretty awesome… but they were awesome the first time I heard about them… not the 4th and 5th. ๐Ÿ™‚

    He really is a great guy, and I do love having him in the family.  He just has some rather quirky/slightly annoying characteristics.

    Post # 14
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    1697 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    i love my brother in laws and love my Fiance siblings…but not so much his siblings SO!

    Post # 15
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    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I love my Brother-In-Law. They live kind of far away, but I really enjoy seeing him. He’s like an older brother that I never get to see enough :).

    Post # 16
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    445 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I honestly couldn’t ask for better sisters inlaw.  They are really sweet and we’ve become really good friends.  Their significant others however is another story.  I think it’s because their SOs are not the greatest  people that I have the opinion that they deserve much better..but i love them and as long as they’re happy..that’s all that anyone can ever ask for.  Now if the bfs cheat on them again..we might just kick their butts to the moon!

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