(Closed) How Do You Keep Yourself from Becoming Bridezilla when You’re Usually Sane?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Awe, i’m sorry to hear that.  I haven’t really become that involved with the plannings yet to really get to that point yet.  However I’m sure I’ll feel the same way.  But also, I’m pretty sure I would vent it out a bit,but then just let it go.  Being on “Weddingbee” and after reading a lot of these threads….I just realized how much of a big deal I been making this out to be but in the end it doesn’t really matter. 


After your wedding is over you wont even remember the little mistakes like your STD’s.  I would try not to let it get you upset.  Maybe have a small support group to remind you that it’s okay.

Post # 4
2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We implemented a “no crying rule”. Of course, after that was in place – I burst into tears for meltdown #6 (or something – I lost count :-).)

I try to just take some deep breaths. And gave myself a “present” of a piece of paper at the front of my wedding binder that says “At the end of the day, the most important thing is that we’re married.” I made that after freakout #1 when i almost pulled the plug and demanded a JOP marriage. ooops!

Post # 5
2634 posts
Sugar bee

Eh, I’ve had my moments. 

I guess when I do, I just take a step back and realize that it’s not THAT big of a deal in the grand scheme of things.  A bad photo on your STD doesn’t mean your wedding will be awful or that your marriage will fail.

I think that you recognizing that you were in the wrong for getting mad at him is a HUGE step on the road to NOT being a bridezilla.

Post # 6
135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

A bad photo in the STD really doesn’t matter. I misspelled my name on the invitation card, was devastated for a few days but forgot about it and enjoyed my wedding. Enjoy your moment and chill out in the planning.


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