(Closed) How do you know???

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I can’t be any help to you. I had no clue he was looking at rings and planning a proposal until the day it happened.

Post # 4
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911 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

we talked about it several times. you have to have the talk to see where hes at if you guys are on the same page!!

Post # 5
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1276 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I didn’t know and I think it was better that way. I wasn’t expecting anything and I wasn’t fidgety knowing that he had a ring and hadn’t proposed yet. If you have talked about marriage, ease your mind and know that he will work on it when he’s ready. Until then, nothing wrong with dropping hints or expressing that you would like for him to ask your parents!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

when we moved in together I read an article that said usually people live together for 2 years before you reach the point where you get engaged, and I read it out loud like *hint *hint baby! So as long as he knows its important to you, otherwise it could become an issue if you dont talk about it a little.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Anxiouspeanut: If you haven’t moved in with each other yet, I would definitely bring up your concerns about an engagement taking so long. I told my Fiance I wasn’t moving in without a ring and that got him moving!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

I didn’t- my SO would tell me or hint at it and we also went ring window shopping together a few times. At this point, I am more relaxed about waiting because he has shown me that it is coming.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

Sometimes he acts a little odd but I have no idea for sure if he’s looking. I’ve shown him my dream ring in our budget and I really hope that he looks at it on his own. Sometimes he seems to be paying attention to money a little more than usual so hopefully that’s a good sign! (:

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