(Closed) how do you know your man is still attracted to you

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 17
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

He still gives me that same look and smile that he did the first day I met him. He also kisses me and tells me he loves me very frequently.

Post # 19
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

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@LoggerHead91207:  Haha! I was gonna say the same thing – no matter what is going on – if I start changingm he stops talking, gets all excited and comes over for a hug among other things.

Post # 20
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

When we crawl into bed and he grabs at my hip in order to bring me closer to snuggle, or when he spins around in his office chair, extends his hand and wants to hold mine. That glimmer in his eye he has when first sees me when he comes home from deployment, and the way he kisses my neck when I cook for him.

He shows me in so, so many ways.

Post # 21
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

He shows me every day. When we are together and even when not… he makes sure to send me sweet messages 🙂

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

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@jaykayel:  I know! It’s like he’s a little kid in a candy store. He gets this look on his face like “Can I really?!” He gets excited a lot though, so I wound up just telling him he has joint stock in my body, which means whenever he wants to cuddle or fondle he can go for it (so long as I’m awake and we’re alone) and in return he said that I don’t have to feel like I need to reciprocate if I don’t feel up to it. It’s worked out pretty well so far.

Post # 23
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

I know he’s still attracted to me because he still wants to have sex with me!  LOL!  It may sound stupid, but it’s true.

Post # 24
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

He displays his love and affection for me through his actions. We both have hectic schedules but he guarantees that we get to spend quality time together even if he’s tired. He’s the most at peace when he’s around me, no other woman has ever had that affect on him. To him no other woman has ever mattered. Which is why he never gave up on “us” though I was terrified of ruining our friendship, he pursued me for 11/12 years lol…yup he’s still attracted to me and I’m still attracted to him. I’ve been in love with him since 9th grade. I can’t wait to marry my best friend, my soulmate.

Post # 25
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@6598731ssfse3:  bahahaha so funny and so true.  

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

he tells me and shows me (by looking, touching, ect) multiple times a day 🙂

Post # 27
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

He makes it pretty obvious..

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

His eyes.  He looks at me this “weird” way, I say – this adoring, locked-in way.  I always say to him, “what?  why are you looking at me like that?”  especially when he looks at me like after we are going over the grocery list or some dumb thing.  The other thing is that he is attentive.  Very attentive no matter if it is 3am and the room is cold or if a migraine strikes he will get up out of a coma-sleep or run out to the store and I’m always like “no, you are not going out at 11p for headache tabs!”  or “no, don’t get up, I’ll get the extra blanket” and he’s still trying to get his ass up for me.

My feeling is that a relationship needs to move/evolve from “attraction” to deep love.  The kind of love that’ll have you crawling into their hospital bed when you both are in your 90s and one is laid up in the hospital.  My Fiance had actually taught me this by being so selfless.  I now look at him NOT in a “I love that I want to jump your bones when I see you” or “I love the successful job you have” but in a “I will take care of you when your hair falls out and you and I walk slowly with our walkers, through the park”.  *cries

Not saying you are looking at ‘attraction’ as one thing or the other, not at all.  But, my feedback on this is a result of a 40 year introspective fight about what devotion/attraction leads to.

Post # 29
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Besides the fact that he tells me 20 times a day that I’m beautiful or sexy?  Well, he’s always trying to bang me.

Post # 30
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

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@strawbs:  +1, like strawbs said; he shows me.

Post # 31
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Worker bee

when his hand is constantly on me.. touching my hair, holding my hand and etc.

when he randomly kisses my cheek, hand, my forehead and stuff.. sometimes he thinks I am sleeping and kisses my forehead (notice this when I am half awake)

 and just the way he looks at me, watches me!

 

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