- 13 years ago
This is probably a stupid question, but, I’ve never done this before 🙂
My fiance’s mother and aunt and cousin are planning a shower for me in February. I am honestly just really shocked at their generosity– I am probably the weirdest bride ever, but I totally do NOT expect showers and it really kind of makes me uncomfortable! I feel weird, like I’m soliciting presents before the wedding, when they’ll have to buy me more.
In any case, FI’s aunt has asked me for a guest list. I feel so weird about this I don’t know what to do. Most of my friends live out of town, so I don’t want to send them an invite and make them feel obligated to send a gift and worse, to travel for a shower and then again a few months later for the wedding. Most of his family live out of town also, and really just his parents are local. My family live near his family, but I feel uncomfortable having his aunt host my family…
Ack! What would/did you do for your shower guest list?