Post # 1
I have mostly women friends, and I wish I had more guy friends. Most of my guy friends have gotten married/had kids and dropped off the earth. FH has many female friends, and has no problem with me being friends with guys, going out to dinner, etc. FH and I are LDR, so this means I often spend time with friends and without FH.
My concern is how do I go from acquaintance to friend with guys in a way that doesn’t make them think I am hitting on them?
Post # 3
Talk about your fiance regularly. Not gushy stuff (at least, not all the time hehe), but mention his hobbies, jokes he told, etc. frequently enough that the potential guy friend knows you are happily off the market. Then see if you can get together a group of people with shared interests in some activity (like bowling).
Post # 3
That is hard bc in my experience most straight guys would get the wrong idea when I was just being friendly. Now that I am married it seems like my guy friends are gay, or I do not see or talk to them as much anymore. In any case, friendships happen naturally I wasn’t looking. Why are you specifically looking for guy friends?