- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
My baby ( Fiance ) will be working two jobs when were married.. Hes working 2 now and will keep it after our wedding– I know hes doing this for our sake- and for things to be affordable. I definetly plan on working a few months after I settle in. Since Im moving from the country Im living in and moving in with him, Im sure I wont be ready to work right away- probably a good 5-6 months before I start looking into atleast a part time job. I feel bad that hes working so much but my issue is more related to the fact that i wont be getting to see him often. Were in a LDR right now and obviously dont see each other becuase of the distance- ( countries apart ) and our wedding is in 5 months ( Yay!! ) But everytime I think to myself how amazing its going to be to finally be in his arms and spend time with him, I remember that the only time I can ever REALLY spend time with him will be just once a week.. ( his weekend is only once a week ) and probably late friday night. I feel like im going to spend most of my time atleast in the firsrt couple of months of our marriage more alone or with his family since Im going to be living with them and not really spend time with him. Hes planning on not keeping both jobs for long- maybe an extra 5 months after our wedding– but those first months are very precious to me. Basically hell just get in bed when hes back from work and Ill see him maybe an hour the next day while hes getting ready for work… Makes me sad..
Is anyone else going through this? how do you cope? How do you deal with not spending time with your DH? How can I still keep it special and beautiful when we see each other.
Also another thing that sort of annoys me is that most of the time hell see me is when im sleeping or just woke up. lol, When the heck am I gonna glam up for my sugahpoo?
Anyway, Share your stories and advice (: Atleast Ill know im not alone 🙁