(Closed) How do you put this on the website without being gift grabby?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3769 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

I would just let word of mouth to get your address out there… if people want to mail the gifts around, they should be able to find out from your relatives or other friends, if not call you up.  I would not bother putting it up there!

Post # 4
13385 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t put it there.  If someone doesn’t have your address, they’ll ask you or your parents.

Post # 5
3170 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

We put it in the ‘Registry’ Tab on our website. We had our registrys listed and then ‘If you would rather send the couple well wishes by mail their address is (address).’

Post # 6
6741 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I hope your website is password protected if you’re putting your address there!!

Post # 7
998 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why don’t you send out one of those “we moved” things to your friends and family. That way it isn’t wedding related, it is just to give them yor new address. My fiancé’s cousin did this and it was such a good idea bc ppl just stuck it in their address book

Post # 8
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If you register, the companies will send the packages directly to you.  Otherwise, I would say let it spread by word of mouth.  I personally wouldn’t want my home address on a webpage.

Post # 9
3885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

What is the return address  on your invites or the address on your RSVP envelopes? Most folks will know to look on the return address if they want to mail something back to you.

Post # 10
4252 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

don’t put your address on the net..even if its password protected. If people want to send a gift they will call you or ask your parents and friends for the address.


Post # 11
2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I agree with not putting a mailing address on the web, open to the public.

That said, if you were going to, I’d just put something like: “Please let us know if your mailing address has recently changed so we can ensure your invitation arrives. Our current mailing address is XYZ.”

Based on my web traffic after sending out Save the Dates, I’m not sure people use wedding websites as much as I thought they would. So make sure you have your address clearly as your return address on your invites/STDs and you’ll be fine.

Post # 12
735 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Typically the gifts are sent to the return address on the wedding invitiations.

That’s how I’ve ALWAYS verified that I have the correct address when mailing a wedding gift.  I’d think it was odd to have to hunt it down online.  (And I hate that my address is online in the public tax records, there’s no way I’m voluntarily putting it on a webpage with my photo!)

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