(Closed) how do you REALLY feel about your FI having strippers (or going to a strip club)

posted 11 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 62
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289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I say no way, and so does the hubs. Some of his friends would have been ok with it, but most of them weren’t-with the ones that would have been, they knew DH’s firm stance, and wouldn’t have taken him to one.

When it comes down to it, I think the best thing is to try to explain that if he felt so upset by something you were considering doing, you would definitely sacrifice it. The bottom line is, if it’s not an issue of morally right and wrong, is seeing some strippers or not being firm with your friends worth hurting you.

(sorry if someone’s said the same basic thing or addressed this-I didn’t go through all the responses!)

Post # 63
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202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I have no problems with strippers. I have been to the strip club with my fiance before and in Vegas I even bought him a lap dance. I know that’s pretty liberal but I could care less. I know he’s not going home with any of them. Its no different to me if he looks at strippers at a club or looks at porn online. They’re guys and they look at other women. 

Post # 64
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60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

It grosses me out. Luckily it grosses out my husband too.

He came home sober at 11 pm from his Bridal Party, with gifts for my toddler nieces.

No really. He went to some giant arcade w/ his friends (half of them are gay and one is underage and only one of them thinks strippers are cool so there was no worry whatsover…). Anyway, he saw the “prize case” and asked all the guys to pool their tix. They did and he had enough to get two little kid sized ukeleles for my nieces.

I wouldn’t have dated a guy who was into strippers. It’s sad to me that some women feel like that have to exploit themselves to men for a living, and it’s gross to me that some men feel the need to partake. That’s someone’s daughter. I always want to ask these guys what they’d think if it was their daughter.

Luckily, H agrees and so do the vast majority of his friends.

 

 

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