(Closed) How do you take it when fiance talks about the wedding with his friends?

posted 9 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Why? Are you both trying to keep it a secret? I’d be psyched if i overheard my Fiance chatting up our wedding like it was super awesome and cool. As it is right now, his facebook page says "trying not to get lost in E’s wedding stuff"…LoL. He appreciates what I’m doing, but he definitely is not interested in all the details!!!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Its different your trying to keep everything a secret! It will be a greta suprise on othe big day, yes but in the meantime things are gonna slip. You have to realize that!

I, on the ootherhand am super blurting out eversingle detail to everyone, ha ha I can’t help it.

As for my Fiance talking about the wedding to his friend, honestly. I think his friends hate him because of it. ha ha he doesnt shut up about it! you would think he was like my wedding planner or something! he is insane! I just roll my eyes when he starts talking about it with his friends, as if they really want to hear about the harpist that we have playing, and how he picked out some songs ha ha.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

In our case, my fiancee is the one who would like to keep everything a secret, and I’m the one who wants to talk about all the details. Our compromise is that I’m allowed to talk with a few people whom she has pre-approved.  If I say anything online, I have to leave out any identifying information, so our friends cannot find it.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

We are both keeping t higns as a secret as well. The guys standing with him in the wedding ask how things are going with the planning, he says fine and then thats it. Not only do we want things to be a surprise but people we know who will be attending the wedding are SUPER critical and downright rude with some of the comments that I have heard them make about other people in our social circles weddings, therefore I don’t want them bashing me. Some have got a little upset abotu me not wanting to talk, but I think now they are just accepting it. The only people that know anything are both set of parents, my Maid/Matron of Honor and thats it. Less complications that way….

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

it only bothers me when its an idea we are throwing around (nothing set) because then he goes and says oh yeah I told some guy at work we are doing blah blah blah… he can’t wait. I’m like, uhhh we were discussing it but its not set in stone.

The big things I want to keep a secret are a secret from him, namely my dress. So no worries there.

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