- 4 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
I am beyond blown away. I have encountered the craziest of crazies today and I just can’t deal. A good friend of mine met a girl a little while ago, they dated, broke up, and are apparently together again. We hung out a couple times when they dated the first time. She didn’t talk much and I didn’t really care either way, I was sort of indifferent. She gets invited to get togethers and stuff and whatever, I mostly manage to just ignore.
Tonight, we had a party at a friends house, and they were getting loud and the neighbours grumpy so to ease the tension we told everyone they could come to our place. My good friend finally comes to my house (she saw it for the first time today and I’ve lived here 9 months now), and this other girl comes too.
And she just abosultely got weirder and crazier by the second. First it was tolerable, and then annoying and then just weird and uncomfortable. She kept talking about how everyone has to die (like, every fifteen minutes) and talking about how she’s god and can predict all of us measley children and talking about future names for her prodigy children with my friend and oh my goodness.. it was just WAY too much crazy for me.
When she brought up how “everyone has to die’ for the like, sixth time, I finally politely asked her to please stop talking about it. Is morbid and I don’t want to hear it every fiftEen minutes in my own home. And she argued about how its not morbid and I told her I can respect how she feels about it but I still don’t want to hear about it over and over and she finally shut it down, stopped talking to me, only gave me crazy looks, and then cabbed home.
There was lots of other crazy, she kept grabbing me and hugging me, that’s kind of an awkward situation for me so I apologize if I’m flinchey and not a very heartfelt hugger and she informs me that its fine because she wanted to hug me so she’s going to. regardless of how I feel about it. Um what?! She even tried to kiss me right on the lips one time and I was all “no sorry,” and dodged her and she planted one on my cheek.
By the time she left, I knew she was mad at me, and my nerves are just shot. She was the weird vibe kinda crazy that makes you want to double lock the doors, the kind that makes you semi scared to post on the bee for fear of finding it and having more fuel for her crazy.
I’ve never felt like someone might actually be crazy enough to try to hurt me out of sheer crazy but this girl makes me feel like it might be possible. The friend who’s house the party was at originally said they got kicked out of a bar because said girl punched a waitress in the back of the neck. Who does that?!
She’s not welcome at my house any longer. I’m sorry if it offends her, and I’ll be really sorry if her boyfriend can’t get over it cause h’s my friend first. But I can’t just pretend that the things she says and way she acts is okay with me, its ot.
Is caziness!! I feel like no matter what a person does to keep the drama away, it just keeps cming! How the heck do I get this girl off my back nicely without making her want to stab or something equally crazy!