(Closed) How does your SO feel about you going to a nightclub or having a girl’s night

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

My SO doesn’t mind if I have a girls night. It usually ends up at a restaurant or a bar/grill type of place to grab some drinks. He’s fine with me going to nightclubs, I just don’t have any interest in them.

Post # 32
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

       Mine is not a fan of me going to clubs alone. His ex cheated on him with someone at a club once though so I can kind of get his concern (though he knows I would never do that to him). Usually he just comes with.

Post # 34
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

He doesn’t care. I don’t go out dancing with my girlfriend all too often last time was September, and I got caught up in a mansandwich on the dancefloor somehow. Still have no idea what happened. Hahah. I told Fiance and show him the pictures and he couldn’t stop laughing. That was good at least!

Post # 35
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Bee Keeper

I’m more of a Pub girl than a Club girl, but even if I did go out dancing, my husband would be totally fine. He’s not really the type to get jealous about that kind of stuff.

Post # 36
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@2PeasinaPod: same! I love pubs.

My Fiance doesn’t care. I’m sure he loves the time alone! He’s a homebody so he doesn’t like going out to clubs and stuff anyway.

Although, when I am out, all I can think about is how I can’t wait to get home and snuggle up with him and a good movie!

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

He doesn’t care. I can go out in the day or night. Sometimes I go out with my co workers who are mostly guys or just with the girls. If I go out it;s either to bar/resturant for some dinner and drinks.

Post # 38
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am much more social than Fiance, so he’s happy to have my girlfriends take me off his hands for an occasional night out!

Post # 39
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

He encourages it. He’s not into nightclubs anymore – neither am I really but I’d still go if my friends are going. Nightclubs aren’t just for hooking up…..some people just go because it’s fun to dance.

Post # 40
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Sugar bee

He doesn’t care.

He knows I need to scratch my Trance Dance itch and he is just grateful he doesn’t have to come with me

But he is not cool with the weekend roadtrips/hotels to like NY or T.O for all nighters.  I can understnad that.

Post # 41
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

 The night clubs, I think once or twice he wouldn’t mind, but if it became a regular occurance I could see him getting a little peeved. He once told me that if I were to become a party girl that will turn him off most, which I agree because that’s so far removed from my personality.

Girls night out, I know he’ll appreciate somewhat more.

Post # 42
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

My fiance soon to be husband next week has no problem with me going out with the girls and usually encourages it. I think it’s great to have our own nights out we actually did this 2 weeks ago. And will be again this weekend for our bachelorette and bachelor parties.

Post # 43
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

As long as I’m not alone, he doesn’t care. I like to play pool and he doesn’t so he’s cool with me hitting the tables.

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