(Closed) How far away and how often do you see him?

posted 8 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 62
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2013

How far away are you two?

10 hours apart by car

How often do you see each other?

Once every month or two. 

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

He mostly visits me because he has family where I live.

Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

We talk everyday on the phone during our lunch break @ work, text in the morning, we sometimes call each other randomly after work lol and video chat on Tango.

Post # 63
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1243 posts
Bumble bee

How far away are you two?

6 hrs. by car.

How often do you see each other?

1 or  2 weekends a month.

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

He usually comes to me/

Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

We talk on the phone at night; emails throughout the day privided we aren’t busy; meet up in Second Life to hang out.

Post # 64
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

How far away are you two? He lives 419 km away

How often do you see each other? Once in a month, or once in two months

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle? He comes to visit me (have only visited him once). My parent’s don’t let me travel

Talk on the phone? or text? or email? We talk on the phone a whole lot, and chat a lot.

 

 

 

 

 

 
 
 
 

Post # 65
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2755 posts
Sugar bee

My LDR is hopefully only going to be temporary. Our relationship is relatively new, so we’re trying to be “safe” about it, but I think we both know it’s going in the direction of living together – we’re just not sure where that’s going to be yet b/c he is finishing his master’s with an internship this semester and won’t know until later down the road if that company will be hiring him full-time or if he’ll be going elsewhere.

How far away are you two? I’m in Syracuse, NY and he’s going to be in San Jose, CA – so about 2,800 miles 🙁  Right now he’s in Chicago, which isn’t as bad, but he’s moving to CA on Wednesday.

How often do you see each other? I’m hoping to make a trip during the next 4 months while he’ll be away. 

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle? I’ll be going to see him.

Talk on the phone? or text? or email? Phone, text, skype, facetime. I’m also writing him letters!

Post # 66
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89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@gudjen:  

How far away are you two?



I’m here the USA, and he’s all the way in Sweden! So 12 hours by flight!


How often do you see each other?



On skype, we see each other everyday : ) We’ve been really lucky that his work is so flexible (and that he makes enough!). We get to see each other about once a month; however, we are limiting it to save money, so I’m 1/3 of the way through a 3 month break in visits! Two more months until I get to see his sweet face in person!


Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?



He comes to see me. Unfortunately, I’m in school, so getting enough time off to justify an $800 plane ticket just doesn’t happen. 


Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

 
Talk on the phone every chance we get, text when we can’t, skype when we are both home 🙂 A six hour time difference can be tricky, but we manage!

Post # 67
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36 posts
Newbee

How far away are you two?

We live 1 1/2 hours away from each other

How often do you see each other?

We try to see each other every weekend, or at least every other weekend

 Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

Ive been complaining lately that its more me going out there, but we have compromised

Do you talk on the phone? or text? or email?

We talk,l text, and skype almost everyday.

Post # 68
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2167 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@gudjen:  We live together but SO travels two weeks out of every month for work.  We call and text constantly while he is gone, and after 14 days we are both so excited when he comes home again. I fact he gets back on Tuesday and I can’t wait!!!

Post # 69
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48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2012

How far away are you two?

Currently, 10 hours (500 mi) away but soon he will be half a world away and 7000 miles away fighting for our freedom in Afghanistan.

How often do you see each other?

We were seeing each other about every 3 months last year, this year will be different. I don’t even know the next time I will see him 🙁 I am hoping that I will see him during my spring break (if he isn’t deployed yet) or I might not see him a year from you. It’s going to be a hard year, but we will come out just fine.

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

He comes to see me on his 4 day weekends as much as he can, he came home for holidays since both our families are where I am. I have gone out to where he is 3 times our entire relationship. We have thought about meeting in the middle, but we just haven’t been able to make that work with my nursing school schedule.

Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

Phone, text, and the very occasional email. We skype too, but since my internet is crappy… we haven’t done that as much as we used to because it makes us so frustrated. Currently though, none of the above because he is at training and they have cut off all communication to make it more realistic. 

Post # 70
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390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My LDR ends in 4 months!!!!!!!

 

 

How far away are you two?

4 hours drive

 

How often do you see each other?

Once a month on college breaks. Unless its now which were 3 weeks into a 8 week time apart. 

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

I go see him because i want to go home and see my family too. 

Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

We talk on the phone every night. We text occansionally throughout the day. We skype every saturday night unless im away on a trip or something.

Post # 71
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5 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

How far away are you two?

Different countries. About 1.5 hours on the plane.

How often do you see each other?

Every second weekend plus holidays

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

We take turns. He comes a bit more often though

Talk on the phone? or text? or email?

Phone, skype, text

Post # 72
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90 posts
Worker bee

How far away are you two?

5 hours by plane

How often do you see each other?

I will be seeing him in mid- March 

Who goes to see who or do you meet in the middle?

I’m going to be visiting him because he just started a new job. Plus, I’m moving there in May so our time apart won’t be that long.

Do you talk on the phone? or text? or email?

We talk a few times per day on the phone. Send an occasional text and have just set up Skype accounts (we’re new to LDR)

 

 
 

Post # 73
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164 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

My Fiance is currently only a half hour away, but I’ve had 2 previous LD relationships- one that was 2 hours away (I’d see him every weekend- he mostly visited me). And one that was a 26 hour plane ride away (he lived in South Africa). I saw him once every 3 months and we took turns, and talked primarily on Skype and on the phone. That relationship lasted under a year however- he was really not a good person. His last visit he tried to propose and I ended up convincing him to wait, then breaking up with him. He was seriously a psychopath.

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