(Closed) How far did your FI get on the first date!?!?!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How far did you let your FI get on your first date?!
    Strike out (nothing) : (580 votes)
    38 %
    First base (kissing) : (407 votes)
    27 %
    Second base (Over the clothes groping) : (114 votes)
    7 %
    Third base ( a little downstairs actions, hands or other ;) ) : (124 votes)
    8 %
    Home Run! (Full blown sex) : (282 votes)
    18 %
    Other (you never know) : (22 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    5093 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    He got a hug (that I initiated).  I would have kissed him if he had tried.  He waited for another couple of dates until he did that, though.  We were both sixteen.

    Post # 4
    812 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    First date.

    We both knew what was up. He was ready to lose his virginity and I was ready to take it.

    Post # 6
    547 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I was 31 he was 29 and we just hugged and kissed each other’s cheek. He didn’t get it all till three months later and we declared in relationship no more dating others.


    Post # 7
    2214 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We shook hands at the end of our first date. haha. A mutual friend set us up because SO was moving to my city to go to law school and didn’t know anyone. SO says he was too afraid to scare me off by kissing me too soon and didn’t want to lose his only friend in the city. We ended up kissing the next night. πŸ™‚

    Post # 8
    3375 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I got a hug. lol!!! He’d always been told that if he really liked the girl not to kiss on the first date. I thought that he didn’t like me because I didn’t get a kiss!

    Post # 9
    2227 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2012

    We only kissed on our first date but there was some base stealing before we started actually ‘seeing eachother’… I had every intention of keeping him around as a FwB but he had other plans πŸ˜›


    Post # 11
    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    First date, just a kiss. Three months later though, home run.

    Post # 12
    10367 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I did a peck-and-run kiss! I wanted him to know I really liked him, but was super shy about kissing the guy instead of him kissing me….so I kissed him really fast and exited the car, haha. He said he was trying to be a gentleman and take it slow, so he was both surprised and relieved that I made the first move – he knew I liked him without having to play any games!

    Post # 13
    1963 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    First date just a kiss- both of our firsts!

    Post # 14
    5371 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada β™₯ EDD- April 2016

    We hugged at the end (: We were 17 at the time and we went on a boat cruise of our local area. It was really fun! We kissed (more like a quick peck) on our second date, we were both pretty shy about it and nervous ahha πŸ˜‰

    Post # 15
    7339 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    He got a kiss on the cheek πŸ˜€

    Post # 16
    724 posts
    Busy bee

    A hug.  I wanted a kiss SO bad, but he was a gentleman.  Second date I got an hour long kiss in the car that was A-MA-ZING.  Later on I asked him if he was nervous about our first kiss.  His response?  “Not really, I mean you were seriously coming on to me all night.”  LOL! 

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