(Closed) How far did your FI get on the first date!?!?!

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How far did you let your FI get on your first date?!
    Strike out (nothing) : (580 votes)
    38 %
    First base (kissing) : (407 votes)
    27 %
    Second base (Over the clothes groping) : (114 votes)
    7 %
    Third base ( a little downstairs actions, hands or other ;) ) : (124 votes)
    8 %
    Home Run! (Full blown sex) : (282 votes)
    18 %
    Other (you never know) : (22 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 303
    2113 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I clicked the wrong one!!! I meant kiss, not grope!

    Post # 304
    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    A hug! I was still trying to get to know him (with his clothes on) and I liked that he was a gentleman who was also trying to get to know me (with my clothes on). Lol

    Post # 305
    2119 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I let him get to third. i would have gone all the way .i slept on his boat with him that night but he never tried to get the home run. πŸ˜‰

    Post # 306
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee

    We were still in high school, and his parents were very strict. We had to sit on the couch in the living room with his mom watching us…LOL, so no bases!

    Post # 307
    57 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    First and second dates, nothing other than a hug. Third date, home run! This was over a span of 3 weeks. Let’s just say we both weren’t expecting it!

    Post # 308
    7495 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Hmmm we had already made out and gotten to second base before our first “official” date. However, the first night we hung out just involved some cuddling.

    Post # 309
    1134 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    First date we kissed.

    Next time ask about second date…. lol πŸ˜‰

    Post # 310
    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    We did nothing on our first date. We had both been burned so badly in previous relationships that our date was EXTREMELY awkward. We ended up kissing on our second date (which was literally the next day). The rest is history πŸ˜‰

    Post # 311
    9950 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Encore Bride & Oldtimer here (I am over 50)

    Lol, did they MOVE the bases since I’ve been in High School ???

    Second Base was always “boob action” in my Play Book that dates back to the 1960s…

    As for Mr TTR

    We started out our relationship as friends… and pseudo-dating by hanging out together with a gang of friends (lol, not being up to the challenge of one-on-one dating… mostly on my part having the experience of a horrible divorce)

    By the time we truly admitted we had feelings, and started calling what we had going on “dating” we didn’t waste any time !!

    Infact our weekend together, to use Baseball terminology…  was “Back-to-Back Multiple Game Days”…

    πŸ˜‰ *wink*


    Post # 312
    1063 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    My SO and I had sex (a few times) before going on an official date hahaha. We had a shared best friend and ran into each other here and there over the course of 6-8 months (after growing up in the same town tho we didn’t know each other when we were kids), and one night we ended up kissing at a local bar. The very next night we were at his house with our mutual friend playing drinking games like the silly 22 yos we were. After she made every rule about stripping then suddenly bounced out (LOL!!!), one thing lead to another pretty quickly! HAHA! I had just started working with him and our friend, so I would go over to their place every night after work to hang out (they were new roommates). I guess our first date was going out for Halloween together the next week in matching costumes, but we always think of going out to dinner another ~week later as our tongue-in-cheek ‘first date’. Funny that 5 yrs later we’re still together! We obv weren’t looking for a long term relationship when we got together!! hahaha! πŸ˜‰

    Post # 313
    6916 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018

    No kiss in our first date. We kissed it like a week later. We saw each other daily at school but we waited to make it more special. We hugged in our first date. 

    Post # 314
    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    My fiance and I met via “customer service tech support” so… we talked on the phone and via gchat for a month before we met. For our first date, we wandered around a park and talked. Annnnnnnnnnnnnnnd then that night we stayed in a hotel room together (home base chyea boi!) … but the best thing was that afterward he cuddled me and talked to me all night long and constantly rubbed my back and kissed my forehead. 

    I was so won over, I was a goner.

    Post # 315
    16 posts
    • Wedding: June 2013

    First date, I was 18 and he was 24… I was over the moon that our elbows touched in the movie theatre πŸ˜›  lol…. I am the epitome of virginity πŸ˜› lol 

    He held my hand after 4 months (we were on a walk and had been gone for at least an hour.  He finally got up the nerve to do it about 2 blocks from my house.  We were both so giddy and didn’t want to let go that we ended up doing the whole route over agin.) … and we kissed after another 4. Talk about taking it slow…. πŸ™‚ 

    We both wanted (and still want) to wait until our honeymoon to go all the way.

    My fiance is not a virgin, but he only had one partner and they have not been together in years and he did not have sex after her (or date anyone).  

    It might sound weird, but I feel so incredibly safe with him.  The first time we discussed our physical relationship, he told me that he didn’t want me to have any regrets.  He told me that he was absolutely okay with whatever I was comfortable with.

    He was my first kiss, and at first I was soooo awkward!! πŸ˜›  I had no idea what I was doing.  (I mean, like he kissed my tooth while I was smiling…. yup.) πŸ˜›


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