(Closed) How far do you go to chase an RSVP from an old close friend

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I get in touch with her
    Yes : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    1439 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I would probably just send her another text and/or facebook message and say something like “we have to turn the numbers into our caterer, and since we haven’t heard from you guys I’ll have to mark you as a no, we’ll miss you at the wedding!”. Sorry this is happening to you!

    Post # 4
    4442 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    I would also suggest sending her another follow up text or facebook message/email saying something like “I haven’t heard from you regarding attending the wedding so I’m going to assume you’re a ‘no’ please let me know if I’m wrong.”

    She should know that you need to know one way or the other for your final numbers so her being stubborn makes zero sense.

    Post # 5
    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Looks like they’re really busy with their own lives eh? Maybe they’re having relationship issues?

    Post # 6
    1186 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Add another poll option.  You only have “yes”.

    My answer is no. Leave her alone. It is pretty clear she isn’t coming and needs some space.


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